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Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Trudy Booth - Jun 26, 2009 9:53:30 am PDT #14172 of 30000
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

I do think he molested kids, because he exhibits all the traits of molesters

Which is a common enough opinion, but at least one Psychologist, who was appointed by the court and actually examined Jackson and his accuser, assessed that Jackson didn't fit the profile of a pedophile but was rather a regressed ten year old.

Which has always made sense to me. That along with: The first accuser's Mother never believing it; the first accuser's Father apparently looking for a pay-day; the second accuser,s Mother being a bit of a grifter herself; and the jury acquitting, have me come down on "not a pedophile."


Sean K - Jun 26, 2009 9:57:39 am PDT #14173 of 30000
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

Do you think this would play in court? That he's mentally incompetent to make moral choices? I don't.

I won't say that I do think he was mentally incompetent, but I wonder if he was.

He had a fucked up life, but so did my mom.

REALLY not to belittle anything your mom went through, but Jackson lived a life that few outside of royalty will ever experience.

I'm NOT saying it gives him a free pass. I'm NOT saying we should just forgive him for anything he did. ALL I am saying is that, were I his judge or whatever, I'd have to think about that.


Trudy Booth - Jun 26, 2009 9:57:44 am PDT #14174 of 30000
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

Do you think this would play in court? That he's mentally incompetent to make moral choices? I don't.

I don't think that had anything to do with his defense when he actually DID go to court. And was acauitted.


Sean K - Jun 26, 2009 10:00:27 am PDT #14175 of 30000
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

Do I think it would play in court, however? Probably not. No matter how true it might be.

And ultimately, I'm not sure it would play in court, either. Or with me. But it gets my consideration.


Steph L. - Jun 26, 2009 10:04:58 am PDT #14176 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

assessed that Jackson didn't fit the profile of a pedophile but was rather a regressed ten year old.

Which has always made sense to me.

Me, too. He tried very hard to re-create the childhood he never had.

I'm not making an assessment of whether or not he sexually abused kids. I have no way of knowing.


Hil R. - Jun 26, 2009 10:05:16 am PDT #14177 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I guess what I'm getting at with Jackson's complete divorce from normality is to wonder, with an abusive upbringing himself, and an entire life spent insulated and surrounded by protecters and enablers, did he ever have a chance of being able to tell right from wrong? Especially in this one area. I suspect the life he led is as foreign to us as any kind of normal life was to him.

Was his life as a child significantly different than other child stars? Or, at least, significantly different than other child stars with abusive parents (of which there have unfortunately been a ton)? I can think of a lot of those former child stars who have had drug or alcohol problems, or who do seem to have some psychological issues, but I can't think of any other who's as far off from the adult definition of "normal" in any direction as Michael Jackson.


DavidS - Jun 26, 2009 10:05:54 am PDT #14178 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I'm glad that the therapeutic model isn't the basis for our legal system. But rather adults are held responsible for their behavior.

Problem is, Sean, as uniquely fucked up and insulated as MJ's life was, he still has a moral obligation to examine his actions and know their consequences. I expect this of every mentally competent adult. To put it in Sartrean terms, his failing is that he lied to himself. That he chose to believe the lies that were perpetuated around him. Because of that he had no check on reality. That he could believe that his lack of boundaries (at the very least) was not damaging to other children.


DavidS - Jun 26, 2009 10:07:16 am PDT #14179 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Me, too. He tried very hard to re-create the childhood he never had.

As Scrappy notes, that's what people who are pedophiles do as well. They are fixated on that age.


Steph L. - Jun 26, 2009 10:07:22 am PDT #14180 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I can't think of any other who's as far off from the adult definition of "normal" in any direction as Michael Jackson.

He was able to be so far off the definition of "normal" in large part because he had the money to do so.

Other people who have been fucked up in the same way that he was might very well have done similar far-out shit, if they had piles and piles of money to do so.


Steph L. - Jun 26, 2009 10:08:39 am PDT #14181 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Me, too. He tried very hard to re-create the childhood he never had.

As Scrappy notes, that's what people who are pedophiles do as well. They are fixated on that age.

Not all people who try to re-create a childhood that they never experienced are pedophiles. I'd wager the vast majority are not.