Thanks, Hil!! I feel more like my self with short hair than I ever do with longish hair. Thank God for good stylists.
'Trash'
Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
So there's a really cute woman working backstage at the show I'm designing. And do I have the guts to ask if she's single, or would like to go on a date?
No. No I do not. This is why I will be single forever.
Love the new 'do! I think you look fresh and sassy.
And now she's chatting up the sound board op.
Women are never interested in me. I am utterly unattractive in any way. At least that is what the overwhelming evidence suggests.
Sean, seems we share membership to the same exclusive group. Or is that exclusion group?
Don't make me go southern on y'all.
Sean, you need to find an opportunity to name-drop your awesome goats cheese/fig/parma ham recipe at her! Or some other awesome recipe!
Or, alternatively (and I can never follow this advice, but it's good advice nontheless) you need to reflect that life is short, and just go ASK HER.
Sean, I feel your pain, but I am also kicking you in the pants and telling you to just talk to her, period, and the single/dating part can come later. You have many attractive qualities, but self-pity is not one of them. And I say that as someone in the same boat.
Most guys that I'm interested in seem to have no interest in me.
ION, walking from Soul Vegetarian over to Sticky Fingers is odd. First, you go by a bunch of hair salons and stores selling African stuff. Then, houses, getting progressively better-maintained as you go. Then you turn onto 14th, and suddenly, there's a mall there! Out of nowhere, a zillion chain stores and shiny things and huge signs.
I was actually working up the guts to ask her, but right now, she's using all of her free time to flirt with somebody else. Asking her out at this point seems a little tacky.
And I know self pity is not attractive. I just don't know how to stop that, except by not thinking about it. Which doesn't seem like it would help either.