Heh. Toddson, your family sounds like mine--my dad worked outside the home, so felt like he shouldn't have to do any cooking or cleaning. Um, at all. And my mom felt pissy at him...so as soon as the kids were old enough (9ish?), we got to mow the lawn! Because, see, that *should've* been his job.

My daughter would love to mow the lawn. But we have a lawn tractor, so it is much more exciting. I expect the excitement would last about half and hour.

No, my father took care of the "man" stuff - gardening, mowing the lawn, painting, etc. But the routine stuff inside the house - cleaning, laundry, ironing, cooking - was women's work. Even after my mother went to work full time. So it got passed on to me.

Jeez, erika, that is of teh suck.

My family has the traditional gender breakdown. In Jamaica my mother hires the inside help and my father the outside. In England, my mother did the inside work, my father the outside. I doubt my father can cook, and I'm pretty sure he can't clean--when he lived most of the year by himself in Russia he had one woman to clean and another to cook, which was even more siddity than Jamaica. There we double up.

I know! And if I were Ari Gold, instead of just playing him on the internets, given that she is MILFy and German...there's just like, some AutoBahn reference, begging to be free, and yet? I've got nothing. It will come to me in three weeks when I no longer need it, of course.

No, my father took care of the "man" stuff - gardening, mowing the lawn, painting, etc. But the routine stuff inside the house - cleaning, laundry, ironing, cooking - was women's work. Even after my mother went to work full time. So it got passed on to me.

I read a thing once (no idea when or where) that talked about how most "women" jobs tend to be things that had to be done at certain times and/or frequently (cooking, dishes, laundry, mending) and most "man" jobs tend to be projects that can be scheduled (gardening, mowing, painting...). I found this interesting.

I actually pointed this out to my Uncle once when I was living with him and my Aunt for a summer. Not only did they both work full time, it was together in the family business. They'd get home at night and she'd hustle around doing stuff while he chilled. His stuff could all wait to when he felt like it.

Since I was there for the summer working at the family business I was on the cooking staff as well since I have breasts. One weekend he asked me to help him with some yard stuff and I (this was all in a laughing teasing way, not arguing) went and got a book instead and watched him do it.

Good times, good times...

which was even more siddity than Jamaica.

What does "siddity" mean?

Hubby's gaming friends envy him because I not only tolerate his gaming, I've been known to game myself. People who don't know me think he's making me up.

I had my last scheduled demo lesson / interview today, and came out with an offer. It is a good one, and I'm probably going to accept it barring major changes in the situation or my brain over the weekend, so all my job-search~ma is released. Thanks all.

My mom does most of the cooking, though my dad is perfectly capable, just because she's a stay-at-home wife. My dad does a lot of the cleaning, though mom (and all of us, when we're there) help, and we have somebody come in for the large-scale stuff (in a 5 bedroom house, there's a lot of cleaning, and my mother has pretty severe health problems that make it hard for her to do too much physical work at any one time.)

Improbable Girl and I split the cooking and the cleaning, but not with any specific system. Sometimes we do-dishes-as-we-cook. Sometimes we leave them for a few days. Sundays tend to involve vacuuming, swiffering, bathroom-scrubbin, and other large-scale stuff - at those times I tend to take the kitchen and living room while she takes the bedroom and bathroom, but sometimes we do it differently. Anyway, it all works out.