I'm completely furious about it.
It's infuriating. You deserve to have the happiness that marriage brings. And you deserve to have the contentment of knowing that any other couple around you can have the same happiness.
Take me, sir. Take me hard.
Zoe ,'War Stories'
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WindSparrow - May 26, 2009 9:36:29 am PDT #10946 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.
Connie Neil - May 26, 2009 9:57:29 am PDT #10947 of 30000
brillig
I believe Prop 8 passed because the people who were mildly against it didn't bother to go to the polls once it was pretty well decided that Obama was going to win. The issue wasn't a big initiator for them, so they shrugged and stayed home. The zealots, though, were going to vote regardless of the presidential race.
Having existing gay marriages in place but not having mass marital chaos break out will be a benefit for the next fight. I can think of half a dozen ads based on "There are 18,000 gay married couples in California. When did you start seeing your marriage falling apart because of that? It hasn't?"
The wheels of politics are jagged and slow. But they do turn.
erikaj - May 26, 2009 10:01:45 am PDT #10948 of 30000
"already on the kiss-cam with Karl Marx"-
It's gonna happen, people. And, know you've got allies fighting with and for you until it does.
erikaj - May 26, 2009 10:01:45 am PDT #10949 of 30000
"already on the kiss-cam with Karl Marx"-
Aims - May 26, 2009 10:07:13 am PDT #10950 of 30000
Shit's all sorts of different now.
I'm pretty much on the side of marry who you want to marry - it doesn't affect me (unless you are trying to marry the person to whom I am already married and you do not want to take 1/3 of the household chores) or my life, so if everyone is consenting and of age - go to it.
Connie Neil - May 26, 2009 10:17:27 am PDT #10951 of 30000
brillig
you do not want to take 1/3 of the household chores
I told Hubby he could have another wife if she slept on the couch and did the chores. He said if he ever was in the market for one he'd use that as a criteria.
tommyrot - May 26, 2009 10:18:02 am PDT #10952 of 30000
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.
so if everyone is consenting and of age - go to it.
The "consenting" is important, as this prevents the slippery slope from leading to man/box turtle marriages.
Jessica - May 26, 2009 10:19:38 am PDT #10953 of 30000
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset
The "consenting" is important, as this prevents the slippery slope from leading to man/box turtle marriages.
Oh sure, that's fine for now, but just wait until Science creates a genetically modified talking box turtle. What then? Won't somebody please think of the half-human-half-box-turtle children???
NoiseDesign - May 26, 2009 10:21:40 am PDT #10954 of 30000
Our wings are not tired
I think they'd be AWESOME!
Laga - May 26, 2009 10:23:19 am PDT #10955 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.
Strongly discouraging, sure, and encouraging termination in the case of detectable problems, okay. But legally forbidding it or forcing termination? Sounds dangerous to me.
Yeah. I think it's wrong but if it's illegal for siblings to have kids I assume that's to protect the health of the child. Why not therefore make it illegal to smoke while pregnant? Why not make pre-natal care mandatory?