Played with Kaylee. Sun came out, and I walked on my feet and heard with my ears. I ate the bits, the bits stayed down, and I work. I function like I'm a girl. I hate it because I know it'll go away. The sun goes dark and chaos has come again. Bits. Fluids. What am I?!

River ,'War Stories'


Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Hil R. - May 22, 2009 2:27:38 pm PDT #10691 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

OK, perhaps the most "Huh?"-inducing comment on that article:

I find it a bit weird. Should kids be thinking about being mothers at that age? Early sexualisation of kids is wrong.

Isn't pretending to be a parent the usual way of playing with a baby doll?


erikaj - May 22, 2009 2:28:49 pm PDT #10692 of 30000
"already on the kiss-cam with Karl Marx"-

I'd say so.


erikaj - May 22, 2009 2:28:49 pm PDT #10693 of 30000
"already on the kiss-cam with Karl Marx"-

I'd say so.


dcp - May 22, 2009 2:37:53 pm PDT #10694 of 30000
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

I now have a wee, solid beastie in the garage....

No collar and tag, I assume, but maybe he has a chip?


Hil R. - May 22, 2009 2:38:39 pm PDT #10695 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I'm also very puzzled by the people saying that breastfeeding is an "adult issue" that children shouldn't know about. Um, last time I checked, breastfeeding involved two people, one of whom was a child.


Barb - May 22, 2009 2:42:44 pm PDT #10696 of 30000
“Not dead yet!”

No collar and tag, I assume, but maybe he has a chip?

No collar, no tag, no tattoo that I could easily see. By the time he showed up, it was too late to call my vet or the nearby animal hospital to take him in and I refuse to call animal control, since they're a kill-shelter and I just don't trust them. I'll take him into the vet tomorrow to see if he has a chip.


Burrell - May 22, 2009 2:50:34 pm PDT #10697 of 30000
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

a little girl, maybe two years old or so, fully clothed, holding a baby doll to her chest, imitating her mother breastfeeding a baby.

That could have been my daughter at that age. Only Franny went for verisimilitude, so she tended to pull up her dress or top to give the doll proper access.

I am not surprised the photo upset some people. People are freaks and nonsense when it comes to fears about overly sexualizing kids. For starters, nursing isn't sexual, particularly not to kids. I am so glad Franny's teachers at the time found her behavior completely appropriate.


brenda m - May 22, 2009 3:00:07 pm PDT #10698 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Barb, you should call the shelter and let them know at least, in case his people check there for him.


Jessica - May 22, 2009 3:08:25 pm PDT #10699 of 30000
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

It was probably a toss-up between a picture of actual breastfeeding (BOOBIES!! AACCCCCKKK!!!!) and a picture of a kid with a doll (KID PRETENDING TO BE A PARENT!!! AAAAACCCKKK!!!). And I'm sure the angry letters would be coming from the same crowd either way.


Laura - May 22, 2009 3:20:22 pm PDT #10700 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

I was very casual about nursing everywhere at anytime. Adults pretend to not notice, but kids get curious and ask questions. Children don't find feeding babies sexual at all.

And of course I would nurse the boys in the airport because otherwise they would be acting up and crying and be at risk for the killing by the surly traveler. It was in the child's best interest.