It's because you didn't have a strong father figure isn't it?

Joyce ,'Chosen'


Spike's Bitches 40: Buckle Up, Kids! Daddy's Puttin' the Hammer Down.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


omnis_audis - Apr 20, 2008 8:05:46 pm PDT #5665 of 10001
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

Billytea, You should call Angel, find out what kind of glass they had at Wolfram & Hart. In the meantime, try sunblock.

eta: who the comment was for


billytea - Apr 20, 2008 8:10:32 pm PDT #5666 of 10001
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

Billytea, You should call Angel, find out what kind of glass they had at Wolfram & Hart. In the meantime, try sunblock.

Like on the Simpsons?


Pix - Apr 20, 2008 8:17:38 pm PDT #5667 of 10001
The status is NOT quo.

Daniel, I have no advice for you. I would just call first thing.


Burrell - Apr 20, 2008 8:37:07 pm PDT #5668 of 10001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

ugh, meara, she just met you, right? So's how she supposed to know if you are deep or not? WhatEV mang.


Susan W. - Apr 20, 2008 8:38:36 pm PDT #5669 of 10001
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

I am not deep enough for her. Which is fine, cause when I read her profile I was like "wow, she's too bullshitty pretentious for me"

Ah, yes, the naval-gazing pretentious "deep" and "spiritual" type. I guess it's better to figure it out right away than have it gradually reveal itself over multiple dates.

I think I figured out why I've been having such bad time management problems lately, especially at home. Part of the problem is that I need to actually USE a system like Getting Things Done or FlyLady's lists instead of just thinking about what a good idea it would be (and I spent an hour or two on project and task lists today).

But the big thing is learning to flow around interruptions. I'd gotten to the point where I hardly did anything while Annabel was awake. Then I realized the pattern. I'd be trying to pay the bills or respond to my critique partners or whatever, and Annabel would need me or just want to play, and once her attention drifted elsewhere, it'd take me forever to go back to what I was doing--all because over the years I got into the bad habit of going through this internet procrastination ritual of checking b.org, all my blogs, my email, etc. before going to work. And I do it EVERY TIME, no matter how recently I last checked them. So it's like half an hour checking blogs, email, DailyKos, etc., five minutes of work, twenty minutes playing with Annabel, half an hour checking blogs, five minutes of work before Annabel asks for a glass of milk, lather, rinse, repeat.

So now I'm trying to break the procrastination ritual. And I've gotten a ton of stuff done today, too. I just have to make it stick somehow...


meara - Apr 20, 2008 8:38:44 pm PDT #5670 of 10001

Yeah, this was a semi-blind (from the internet) date. She was the one who originally contacted me. And I'm not sure if it was the mention of America's Next Top Model, or the flat-out saying that I'm really not that introspective, but....heck, I felt like the religion talk was appropriately not-shallow...

Whatever. Her shamanic journey will go on without me. OY.


omnis_audis - Apr 20, 2008 9:19:39 pm PDT #5671 of 10001
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

Meara, don't let the "first/only dates" get you down. I feel your pain. Part of me is desperate to want a mate, and start to think "oo, if I..." then I realize, eh, she's not the one for me. Keep your chin up luv, we'll find our mates.


Fay - Apr 21, 2008 1:40:51 am PDT #5672 of 10001
"Fuck Western ideologically-motivated gender identification!" Sulu gasped, and came.

Sheesh, Meara - she sounds like a total pillock! With a pretty impressive combination of ego and lack of social skills, at that - just as well she's nice looking.

Still, anyone who doesn't realise that a sense of frivolity & enjoyment of pop culture is NOT, in fact, indicative of shallowness...more fool her.

Still, bugger. I feel the universe should be flinging hot chicks your way, damn it! You're owed some good karma!


Hil R. - Apr 21, 2008 2:36:06 am PDT #5673 of 10001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Yeesh, meara.


Aims - Apr 21, 2008 4:03:17 am PDT #5674 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.

t waves weakly

javachick - in answer to this:

Please tell me that this isn't actually possible? They do have audits of IP addresses or somesuch to prove their graduating students are, ya know, actually the ones taking the exams?

I haven't the slightest. I'm going to go with "Yes, it is possible" because students can log into the system from any computer, any where. I have worked from at least 7 states. What I'll probably do is have my sister watch me take it again. She didn't do any of the problems for me - I did all the work - and she told me if I was right or not. And if I'm having a problem getting a problem set up, she helps me get it set up.

Weekend with sis was good. Infection is departing like a good infection should. Found out my mother called my OBC to ask about the doctor that sis is seeing for the cancer, since they are in the same medical group and hospital. I have several conflicting feelings about this.