Don't you have an elsewhere to be?

Cordelia ,'Lessons'


Spike's Bitches 40: Buckle Up, Kids! Daddy's Puttin' the Hammer Down.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


omnis_audis - Apr 09, 2008 9:45:00 am PDT #3810 of 10001
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

teeheehee. He's still stumped. Obviously this is my 25% German coming to the front.


brenda m - Apr 09, 2008 9:46:55 am PDT #3811 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Are they building a house, Ginger? In that case I can see it. Otherwise no.


Ginger - Apr 09, 2008 9:47:34 am PDT #3812 of 10001
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

They own a house already.


megan walker - Apr 09, 2008 9:48:01 am PDT #3813 of 10001
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist

It's that the registry reads like a shopping list.

I feel this about most registries, but, then again, I usually don't use them. If I don't know you well enough to have a gift idea? Then I'm probably not going to your wedding.


sj - Apr 09, 2008 9:58:16 am PDT #3814 of 10001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

That is a weird registry. We registered for a bunch of things but it's all house kitcheny things.

Speaking of weddings, I just got invited to a last minute one. No idea what to wear, and I can't find anything in the stores.


Ginger - Apr 09, 2008 9:58:21 am PDT #3815 of 10001
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

The registries in question were for my cousin's son and, most recently, a good friend's son, so I don't know them well.

Also, is it tacky to buy what they want elsewhere? Crate & Barrel (one of the places they're registered) would not be my first choice for things like cake pans.


Jessica - Apr 09, 2008 10:00:10 am PDT #3816 of 10001
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

Also, is it tacky to buy what they want elsewhere? Crate & Barrel (one of the places they're registered) would not be my first choice for things like cake pans.

It's not tacky, but it can lead to annoying duplicate gifts that have to be returned.

(Signed, Did Not Need That Many Decorative Bowls. Seriously, Did Not.)


Ginger - Apr 09, 2008 10:01:55 am PDT #3817 of 10001
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

I didn't register for candlesticks, but I got five pairs.


Frankenbuddha - Apr 09, 2008 10:03:03 am PDT #3818 of 10001
"We are the Goon Squad and we're coming to town...Beep! Beep!" - David Bowie, "Fashion"

schadenfreude

Still not as good as backpfeifengesicht.


Pix - Apr 09, 2008 10:03:30 am PDT #3819 of 10001
The status is NOT quo.

Not tacky, Ginger, especially if you're buying something nicer. I have mixed feelings about registries. I know they aren't very personal, but I was very glad to have one when I got married because it meant that I didn't get (too many) duplicate or bizarre gifts.

In terms of weird things showing up on the registry, I know that strange things happen to the brain when someone hands you one of those scanner things. Suddenly you want to scan EVERYTHING. If they did it all online, it might be a similar phenomenon.