vw, good luck with this, whatever you choose.
Empress - I have no words for the sheer asshattery of this guy.
Laga - nice letter!
www, Fay... I am on Facebook, but I already ranted in the last Natter about how profoundly I don't get it. All those green walls and super pokes and virtual cupcakes and people wanting me to forward some picture of a teddy bear around the world--I'm lame and old and I don't understand any of it. I know there's some sort of Scrabble-y game there, which would be cool, but I don't know where it is or how to find it and Facebook doesn't seem to want to play nicely with Firefox, so mostly I just ignore the whole business.
But, but that doesn't need to be your Facebook experience! 'cause I ignore all these SuperWalls and UberWalls and NoThisIsTheBESTWall nonsense things and stick with just having the common-or-garden wall that people can write messages on if they want to. (I really don't want a place where people can forward me new stupid junkmail.) And I don't do TopFriends/BestFriends/TheseAreMyREALHomies or any of that crap, because I don't like the whole elitist nonsense. And I don't do VirtualCupcakes or Hatching Gifts or whatever, because I can't be bothered. I'm quite picky about which applications I add.
I just have the things I like - like an art gallery of some of my favourite paintings, and a Pirate game where I can sail around and find buried treasure and attack other pirates, and a Firefly trivia game. That sort of thing. And I love being able to post my photos easily, and see other people's photos, and get a glimpse into what's happening with other people whom I don't normally see.
t /sad
Which isn't to say that you must love Facebook! Life is short. But - I feel like this is like Tara saying that she doesn't go online because of all the bad spelling - which I entirely understand and respect, and indeed applaud, but then there are places where people CAN spell, and do care about grammar! And, and I think with Facebook it's similar, inasmuchas there's a lot of annoying rubbish, but you can just eschew the annoying bits and use the bits you like. Um. Or, you know - not. Um.
...somehow the more I write, the more I sound like a dickhead, so I'm going to stop now. Because I do not, in face, work for Facebook, and I'm not REALLY trying to make everyone use it lots. It just sounds that way the more I type. Um. Meanwhile, though (and this is what started me off in the first place, really) those of you who have facebook accounts (including the lovely JZ) can see my ridiculous new shoes here
(Flickr wasn't uploading the picture for some reason.)