Hey, it's their own fault because what's her name wouldn't come outside.
Get up...get up, you stupid piece of... What did you do that for? What's wrong with you? Didn't you hear a word he said? All of you! You think there's someone just going to drop money on you?! Money they could use?! Well, there ain't people like that. There's just people like me.
Jayne ,'Jaynestown'
Spike's Bitches 38: Well, This Is Just...Neat.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Vortex - Nov 28, 2007 10:06:25 am PST #6148 of 10002
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman
beth b - Nov 28, 2007 10:09:44 am PST #6149 of 10002
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
Sorry , Steph.
1) it was health he was talking about. 2) he really doesn't have a clue how big this is to you 3) he might also be looking for a some sort of guaranteed that life . This is most likely a part of the whole move in thing - just looking for something that doesn't exist. I do not know if the boy is a whatifer -but I am one. Playing out senerios in my head - a great comfort to me. Other people , it makes them crazy stupid.
And i agree with others above - there are places where your accommodation with the significant people in your life is rough at best. Example. When Matt and I got married I was healthy.- extremely . As in never even get got a cold. Now, even with diabetes and asthma - I am still reasonably healthy. however, if I get a cold - we have to have a fight. The last one was completely insane. He came up with bizzare suggests/orders. And yet, when I tell him how he can help me with my health, he forgets 2 seconds after I tell him. Now I admit there is insanity on my side. I am still extraordinarily angry at the state of my health. going from paying no attention to always paying attention is just wrong. But I think part of what is going on in his head is the fear of change - mixed with the much bigger fear that something will happen to me.
I know why you thought about leaving him. ( he should know that at some point) I also thik you made the better decsio to keep going forward. People that love you can hurt you the most, but only because they are there.
juliana - Nov 28, 2007 10:11:16 am PST #6150 of 10002
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…
If the plush Eiffel Tower isn't sufficiently convincing, you could send him to me. I have a bobblehead Jesus who could, um, bobble chidingly at him, and also a miniature redcoat who could poke him with an extremely wee bayonet.
Oooh! I have a squeaky Rufus the Naked Mole Rat avec sombrero and a Portly Moose! The moose can whack him upside the head, and the Rufus can squeak disapprovingly at him.
Oh, OWEN. tries to hold back giggles
Aims - Nov 28, 2007 10:12:11 am PST #6151 of 10002
Shit's all sorts of different now.
People that love you can hurt you the most, but only because they are there.
I would ammend this to "People that love you WILL hurt you the most". Guaranteed.
ETA: Not on purpose, but because we love them so much already anything we percieve as a 5 badness from stranger goes up to 11 when it's someone we love.
Aims - Nov 28, 2007 10:12:36 am PST #6152 of 10002
Shit's all sorts of different now.
If the plush Eiffel Tower isn't sufficiently convincing, you could send him to me.
I have a plush face-sucker from Alien.
Susan W. - Nov 28, 2007 10:15:14 am PST #6153 of 10002
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights
I'm now envisioning something Toy Story-esque with all our desk toys...
Dana - Nov 28, 2007 10:17:06 am PST #6154 of 10002
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.
I have plush MojoJojo and plush Cthulhu. When I get bored, they have conversations about how to take over the world.
amych - Nov 28, 2007 10:17:40 am PST #6155 of 10002
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?
I wish I had desk toys and a root.
sj - Nov 28, 2007 10:19:02 am PST #6156 of 10002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
(((Teppy))) Insent.
brenda m - Nov 28, 2007 10:25:03 am PST #6157 of 10002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there
I have a gargoyle and a Hello Kitty ballerina. I suspect I know which one most people around here find scarier.