Can't even shout, Can't even cry. The Gentlemen are coming by. Looking in windows, knocking on doors. They need to take seven, and they might take yours. Can't call to mom, can't say a word. You're gonna die screaming but you won't be heard.

Dream Girl ,'Bring On The Night'


Spike's Bitches 28: For the Safety of Puppies...and Christmas!  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Volans - Jan 31, 2006 8:10:39 am PST #6958 of 10001
move out and draw fire

what did you do after you graduated college?

Got married (the DAY after graduation). Moved to the Bay Area. Tried to get a job during a bad recession. Moved north to Sacramento. FINALLY got a job...a job that has made every job since look wonderful.

Heh. Something Hec and Maidengurl might appreciate: The part of Athens I live in is Papagos. Which I believe is the name of the park where the A's play in spring training. Karma, I tell you.

And I need to ask for some unspecified life~ma, having to do with careers and places and moving and such.


ChiKat - Jan 31, 2006 8:14:06 am PST #6959 of 10001
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?

Go, Nicole!! So proud of you.

{{sj}}

Bad = Killer Cramps from Hell
Good = Leaving early today to get a massage!

Boo for the bad. And, I totally sympathize. I'm got some serious cramps happening along with nausea. Yay! But, I don't get the nice massage.

After college, I moved home (Memphis) and worked for about 8 months before starting grad school. After grad school, I moved back to Memphis again and worked or a year before moving to Chicago. They were both good experiences for me. Grad school, on the other hand, I wish I had done differently. My advisor and I never really clicked (read: hated each other), and in a small program, that makes a huge difference. But I thought after the first year that I was stuck in the program until I finished. I wish I had just gone to another university.


Gudanov - Jan 31, 2006 8:15:32 am PST #6960 of 10001
Coding and Sleeping

But you were in IT--admittedly I was in Canada, but I got the first job I applied for and they were desperate for more people.

I was stuck in San Antonio right after college for life-reasons. There isn't a big tech industry there and the IT jobs all had tons of applicants. I finally got a low paying job doing support, but only because choices one and two didn't work out. I got a rejection letter before I was hired.


DCJensen - Jan 31, 2006 8:18:02 am PST #6961 of 10001
All is well that ends in pizza.

It's sixteen years later, and I'm still doing what I was going to do until I got on my feet and started doing what I wanted to do.

Oops.


DCJensen - Jan 31, 2006 8:21:39 am PST #6962 of 10001
All is well that ends in pizza.

Oops, I forgot. Right after college, I also drove out to LA, and bummed around taking temp jobs and volunteering for AFI movie projects as a PA.

Moved back when the funds ran out.


SuziQ - Jan 31, 2006 8:26:26 am PST #6963 of 10001
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Maidengurl might appreciate:

Yes, indeedy. And I will be there in JUST OVER A MONTH.

Ahem, sorry. I can't answer the college question, cause I'm still in school, and working full time, and parenting...I'm so not a good example.


§ ita § - Jan 31, 2006 8:27:55 am PST #6964 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I took my last exam, delayed working a week because of a sprained thumb, and dived right into the workplace in the same city in which I'd gone to school. I don't regret it at all.


Nora Deirdre - Jan 31, 2006 8:31:03 am PST #6965 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

MG, you're an awesome and incredible example.


Gudanov - Jan 31, 2006 8:31:21 am PST #6966 of 10001
Coding and Sleeping

My first job was nice in that I could pay the bills and eat while searching for a better job.


Calli - Jan 31, 2006 8:32:24 am PST #6967 of 10001
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I wish I could have done something before diving right into the job market. But I graduated deep in debt, and for quite a while there it only got deeper. At 38 I'm still not quite finished digging my way out.