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Nora Deirdre - Aug 12, 2005 8:31:19 am PDT #7695 of 10002

I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

I choose to love her. Love can be a choice.

Right the fuck ON!

msbelle - Aug 12, 2005 8:33:56 am PDT #7696 of 10002

I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

Love can also build a bridge.

Love can do lots.

Cass - Aug 12, 2005 8:34:12 am PDT #7697 of 10002

Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

I choose Lori because she's an amazing, intelligent, funny, caring, capable, sexy, dynamic person. I choose to be in a relationship with her. I choose to love her. Love can be a choice.

This is lovely. And true.

I miss this feeling.

§ ita § - Aug 12, 2005 8:36:25 am PDT #7698 of 10002

Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I get disappointed with the gay community running around saying, "It's biological. It's not a choice." Because the implication is that if gays could CHOOSE something, they would choose to be straight

I do know gay guys (happy being gay) who are clear on if they'd had to choose, this wouldn't have been it. But it's not a regretful thing -- just that if there's an "easy" way open to you, why not do that?

As for "it's not a choice" to me - it's just as implacable to me as my gender or my race. I don't regret either of them, and even with the "easy choice" option, I wouldn't bother, other than out of curiosity, trying to be a guy or white. I'm a black woman. It wasn't a choice.

I choose to love her. Love can be a choice.

But it's not a choice everyone can make. Rupaul can't, and, say, Katie Holmes can't. And still be true to themselves.

Topic!Cindy - Aug 12, 2005 8:37:51 am PDT #7699 of 10002

What is even happening?

I actually think love is always a choice. I'm not talking about (or at least not exclusively) the sexual attraction component of love. Actually loving someone in a meaningful way (which is more about your own actions than the warm fuzzies the person inspires in you) is a choice, and a decision, and it is the actions/treatment that counts.

Kat - Aug 12, 2005 8:40:10 am PDT #7700 of 10002

"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

Katie Holmes can't

Well that's because of the brainwashing.

Lee - Aug 12, 2005 8:44:27 am PDT #7701 of 10002

The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

Well that's because of the brainwashing.

Damn those space clams.

I choose Lori because she's an amazing, intelligent, funny, caring, capable, sexy, dynamic person. I choose to be in a relationship with her. I choose to love her. Love can be a choice.

Just wanted to see this again.

Aims - Aug 12, 2005 8:46:34 am PDT #7702 of 10002

Shit's all sorts of different now.

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And then, some choices bite you in the ass.....

tommyrot - Aug 12, 2005 8:48:31 am PDT #7703 of 10002

Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

Not to change the subject, but all of a sudden I am so very much looking forward to fall. I have an image in my brain of me walking on a sunny, cool and crisp autumn day, wearing my leather jacket, stepping on golden leaves....

My brain is very attuned to seasons - I discovered this while living in San Francisco.

Gudanov - Aug 12, 2005 8:51:18 am PDT #7704 of 10002

Coding and Sleeping

Since I needed some pictures for a directory, I thought I'd share them.

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