and UGGGGGH I'm glad they're still somehow unspoiled but it's going to be be devastating in a few more episodes and I don't know how to handle it.)
Ooof!
(They also said offhand "Spike needs to learn that no means no" after he talked Buffy into having sex with him against a tree
Also, oof!
You might need a whole sidebar on the Kittenboard and the Dead Lesbian Trope.