Sometimes when I'm sitting in class... You know, I'm not thinking about class, 'cause that would never happen. I think about kissing you. And it's like everything stops. It's like, it's like freeze frame. Willow kissage.

Oz ,'First Date'


Natter 74: Ready or Not  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Atropa - Nov 11, 2015 11:21:20 am PST #8957 of 30003
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

8 or 10 of us pooling resources when we hit retirement age could get much nicer digs in a multi-bedroom house than we'd be able to afford solo, and maybe arrange housekeeping, a cook, and an LPN or two to look after residents.

Some of my other friends and I have talked about doing this.


-t - Nov 11, 2015 11:21:58 am PST #8958 of 30003
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

That's good to know, Kat.


Consuela - Nov 11, 2015 11:23:24 am PST #8959 of 30003
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

Not all facilities are price gouging for profits.

True, although I'm still unhappy that the non-profit ALF was sold to a for-profit chain a year ago. They laid off all the management staff I had relationships with, and since then the staff has changed out even more. I have no idea who I'm supposed to talk to about anything anymore.

Great, I had a bunch of paperwork to do, and my printer has died. Why is it that the one piece of technology I use the least gives me the most trouble? I gave up and ordered a small home laser printer that will scan. Such a damned pain in the ass.


-t - Nov 11, 2015 11:36:00 am PST #8960 of 30003
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Gah. I spent a bunch of time today straightening out an order worth less than .2% of one day's sales plan, and even more time going the wrong direction on a project. Though I guess that did eventually lead me to what I hope will be a better way. Still, a lot of effort not going much of anywhere.


Calli - Nov 11, 2015 11:46:14 am PST #8961 of 30003
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

She didn't want to live with family because she had taken care of elderly relatives when she was younger and didn't want to make anyone else do that.

My mom felt the same way. And she still ended up dying at home, after about a year and a half of mostly family taking care of her, which was hard on everyone. (Hospice provided some help in the last few months.)

One of my book group friends recently moved into a senior co housing facility. It's great! Her place is a bright, open one bedroom apartment. There are common areas for people who want to dine together or do crafts, as well as guest rooms they can reserve for when family comes to town. They're across the street from a senior center, on a ton of bus routes to shopping and doctors, and an easy walk from theaters and bars. I'd move in with her tomorrow if I qualified (age and money-wise).


Ginger - Nov 11, 2015 11:54:20 am PST #8962 of 30003
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

I could use some looking after myself, but I neglected to supply myself with any useful relatives.


bennett - Nov 11, 2015 12:01:12 pm PST #8963 of 30003

My mom was adamant about only leaving her house feet first, but some of that was because of her cats. I know some facilities allows pets these days, but I doubt any would take five cats, two of whom like to pee on things. She didn't quite manage feet first, but was only in the hospital that last time for a few days. So she came close.


Dana - Nov 11, 2015 12:16:41 pm PST #8964 of 30003
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

huh, I changed my tagline yesterday, and it didn't stick. I wonder if I managed to click away without saving.

What if it's a sign that I picked a bad tagline?

Phew, it stuck that time. The board approves of Hamilton.


Connie Neil - Nov 11, 2015 12:26:44 pm PST #8965 of 30003
brillig

I neglected to supply myself with any useful relatives.

Yep. We'll see where the world is in 20 years. Senior communes may yet become a thing. Or Buffista Acres will be a thing and I'll move there.


Maria - Nov 11, 2015 12:31:55 pm PST #8966 of 30003
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift

I am so over today. Work craziness, car with blown out tire still not fixed and won't start now so it's being towed to the dealer, airports are stupid, flights are too close together, and I've had a turkey sandwich, bag of pretzels, bag of peanuts, and two Biscoff cookies today. The evening promises to be better but the cranky is strong right now.