Tact is just not saying true stuff. I'll pass.

Cordelia ,'Dirty Girls'


Natter 74: Ready or Not  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Burrell - Feb 16, 2016 7:36:00 pm PST #15639 of 30003
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Ugh, ND. I feel you. I recommend you apply brown spirits if the shit starts to get oppressive.


Burrell - Feb 16, 2016 7:37:20 pm PST #15640 of 30003
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

I couldn't go to Tai Chi today but I should be able to get in a bonus class on Sunday. Also so happy to see so many folks starting up Tai Chi. Makes it feel more fun that we're doing it together.


shrift - Feb 16, 2016 8:04:12 pm PST #15641 of 30003
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

I was hopeful that I would be able to wait at least a few days before I called mom's financial advisor to find out what's the process on things, but I guess that's tomorrow, and then I suppose it's time to hire a lawyer.

I'm sorry about your mom, ND. I'm also sorry that this is happening, since my family has squabbled over estates and I know how fraught it can be. I do think a lawyer is a good idea, especially if you are an executor.


Jesse - Feb 17, 2016 3:37:56 am PST #15642 of 30003
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Oh jeez, ND. Good luck with that.

I've got to got my shit together, work-wise and probably otherwise as well. I'm just not being effective at work, and certainly not doing much outside of work. Maybe I should take a stand-up class!


msbelle - Feb 17, 2016 4:43:55 am PST #15643 of 30003
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

We have given each other years of material, use it well Scrappy and anyone else brave enough to try.


sj - Feb 17, 2016 4:45:18 am PST #15644 of 30003
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Does anyone have a recommendation for an inexpensive place to get glasses online? I lost my glasses last week, and my eye doctor is going to be closed until the end of March because a pipe burst. I was able to get a copy of my prescription, but I can't get the glasses made there. I have sunglasses for daytime driving, but I really should have a pair of regular glasses. I don't want to spend a lot on them because my prescription will probably change when I get my eyes checked sometime in April.


Jesse - Feb 17, 2016 4:49:05 am PST #15645 of 30003
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Zenni is the cheapest, I think. I've also gotten glasses from Coastal Contacts. And Warby Parker, cheaper than a glasses store but not exactly cheap.


Zenkitty - Feb 17, 2016 5:05:30 am PST #15646 of 30003
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

I do think a lawyer is a good idea, especially if you are an executor.

I second this, and if my sister were here she'd third it. Settling my mom's estate was a real headache with her stepdaughters circling like vultures. (They got nuthin'.)

sj, I've gotten glasses from both Zenni and Coastal and I've been happy with them. Zenni is probably cheaper, but Coastal might be better if you have a really strong prescription (+8 or more).

I need about seven more hours in this day.


sj - Feb 17, 2016 5:41:08 am PST #15647 of 30003
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Thanks, I look into Zenni; my prescription isn't that strong.


SuziQ - Feb 17, 2016 5:44:13 am PST #15648 of 30003
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

I've used Zenni for a few years for my bifocals and I've been very happy with my glasses. I think I'm on my third pair from them. And, even with the complicated prescription, the glasses are affordable enough I'm thinking of getting another pair just so I can change up my look.