We'd be dead. Can't get paid if you're dead.

Mal ,'Serenity'


ita's thread

A place where we can talk about ita, miss ita, and share information about memorials. The hugging started over here in Natter.

First Previous Recent

Laura - Jan 04, 2024 6:38:49 pm PST #3127 of 3136
Our wings are not tired.

I edited my post to clarify that today is the day ita was born into this world, and for this we are grateful.


Beverly - Jan 05, 2024 1:31:59 pm PST #3128 of 3136
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

I miss them both, sometimes unexpectedly with a pang, and sometimes with a fond smile. I'm glad I knew them here, and had the chance to meet Ed. It's a lingering regret I never got to meet ita.


Laura - Jan 05, 2024 7:22:08 pm PST #3129 of 3136
Our wings are not tired.

I did not know non-board ita well. We met 3 times. My IRL impression of her was as a far warmer, and much shyer person. Then again, in person she gave me hugs and encouragement, while on the board I might be challenged sharply. I miss both!


Cass - Jan 05, 2024 8:41:09 pm PST #3130 of 3136
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

My IRL impression of her was as a far warmer, and much shyer person. Then again, in person she gave me hugs and encouragement, while on the board I might be challenged sharply. I miss both!

ita was all of those things, in my experience. Damn, I miss her.


erikaj - Jan 07, 2024 12:12:26 pm PST #3131 of 3136
If Scooby Doo taught me anything, it's that the only thing to fear is real-estate developers.Lisa Simpson

Yes, Cass. Totally.


erikaj - Jan 13, 2024 10:42:05 am PST #3132 of 3136
If Scooby Doo taught me anything, it's that the only thing to fear is real-estate developers.Lisa Simpson

I guess today is the 9th anniversary. Much as I hate FB sometimes, it does keep me connected to dates when I seldom do better than time of year, maybe. Seems so long and so short, all at once.


Laura - Jan 13, 2024 1:58:41 pm PST #3133 of 3136
Our wings are not tired.

Yes, I calendar and celebrate birth dates, but FB brings back the days I want to forget.


erikaj - Jan 14, 2024 9:24:31 am PST #3134 of 3136
If Scooby Doo taught me anything, it's that the only thing to fear is real-estate developers.Lisa Simpson

Yeah...sometimes.


-t - Jan 14, 2024 3:44:50 pm PST #3135 of 3136
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

It can be a jolt when those memories start popping up, but on the whole I’m glad to have the reminders


erikaj - Jan 14, 2024 4:15:07 pm PST #3136 of 3136
If Scooby Doo taught me anything, it's that the only thing to fear is real-estate developers.Lisa Simpson

This, too.


First Previous Recent