You're nice, and you're funny and you don't smoke, and okay, werewolf, but that's not all the time. I mean, three days out of the month, I'm not much fun to be around, either.

Willow ,'Get It Done'


Natter 71: Someone is wrong on the Internet  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


billytea - Mar 02, 2013 3:18:48 pm PST #13410 of 30001
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

Did any of you guys become infatuated with certain music after the age of 30 (a different music than what you already loved by age 25)? I would love to hear your experiences.

I got into chillout music in my early thirties, while I was in Philly. (Bec had been loaned a CD of Christian chillout music at her church, I liked a couple of utnes and decided to go looking for some less denominational stuff.)

I became a MCR fan in 2007-ish, and the only thing different between now and my teen/twenties music fandom is that I have the disposable income so I can go to out-of-state concerts and buy limited edition merch.

Oh yes, you guys turned me onto Danger Days, which I likely would otherwise have passed over. It's now one of my favourite albums, and one of the few that I'll often listen to on my iPhone as a whole album rather than part of the mix. (Others include: Beatles albums, especially from Help to Revolver; and the Gorallaz' Plastic Beach.)

I've been thinking about this a lot - that we tend to set our lifetime musical taste on what we liked/listened to in the teen and early adult years - and how some people never want to hear new music (or are constantly comparing it to what they grew up with) after the age of 35 or so. I've seen so much evidence of this among friends and family and it's led to interesting discussions.

I've been thinking much the same thing of late. (For me that means Eighties music.) Incidentally, the neuroscientist Robert Kapolsky has suggested getting into new kinds of music as a good way to help keep one's mental faculties from deteriorating as we get older.


Amy - Mar 02, 2013 3:36:35 pm PST #13411 of 30001
Because books.

My grandmother used to send us cards for everything. Easter, St. Patrick's Day, Halloween, you name it. She was Hallmark's target market.


Jesse - Mar 02, 2013 3:42:20 pm PST #13412 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Yeah, actually my aunt does it, too. It's nice, really!


Matt the Bruins fan - Mar 02, 2013 3:47:09 pm PST #13413 of 30001
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

Looks like Jeremy Renner isn't so much an arm man, himself: [link]


DavidS - Mar 02, 2013 3:47:48 pm PST #13414 of 30001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

but at least my hair is short again

Did you get the fade?

and the Gorallaz' Plastic Beach.)

An underrated album!

Here, have a lovely ukelele cover of "Melancholy Hill."


sarameg - Mar 02, 2013 3:55:30 pm PST #13415 of 30001

My SIL just reported the following conversation between my eldest nephew and a friend:

Nephew: I can't wait for my facial hair to come in.

Friend: We shouldn't have to wait much longer.

Nephew: well I already have some it is just blonde.

He's 10. My nephew is a pre-tween. How can that wee lump born just the other day be talking about facial hair?


tommyrot - Mar 02, 2013 4:05:20 pm PST #13416 of 30001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

Incidentally, the neuroscientist has suggested getting into new kinds of music as a good way to help keep one's mental faculties from deteriorating as we get older.

Excellent.

In the last decade I've discovered all sorts of cool music from iTunes, eMusic, music blogs, friends etc.

Did you know music can be addictive? In that it triggers some of the same pleasure centers as some drugs do (I can't remember the specifics). For me personally, I think new (to me) music is addictive. I usually have some album or band I'm obsessing about that brings me a lot of pleasure to listen to, but eventually that pleasure will start to wear off and I need to find more new music for my fix. Did I mention I have about 22,000 songs in iTunes?

eta: some of my current obsessions:

  • Tame Impala
  • Django Django
  • Bat for Lashes
  • Foxygen


Connie Neil - Mar 02, 2013 4:15:16 pm PST #13417 of 30001
brillig

I discovered opera in my 30s, and started buying Maria Callas CDs. I made myself stop when I started tracking down variant versions of Tosca, because my budget can't sustain that kind of obsession--though I much prefer the version of Mario's interrogation from the live performance at La Scala over the cast recording from the Met.


§ ita § - Mar 02, 2013 4:43:28 pm PST #13418 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I do tend to get obsessed with the odd new tune every now and again, but I add music at a rate of a song every two to six months. I'm awful. And then it will be on repeat for a while, and then I'll go back to silence or to the 80s, from whence I haven't really left.

I'm trying to do Beasts of the Southern Wild fanart, and it's hard to draw when you're tearing up, you know? Hushpuppy's tagline for the movie gets me right in the tummy. I do think the way I've started drawing recently works kind of well with this character, but doing this movie justice, never mind her performance, is a tall tall order indeed.

Oh, wait--soundtracks or scores--mostly scores--that can give me a whole album bump in my collection at once. But mostly I trip onto that pop song everyone's been playing for months and then falling in love just as it stops getting played. Or I can have a button installed, like with Sail or I Bruise Easily where it is what I use to calm myself down for a good year. Two or three times through, and my brain is clear and I can move forwards again.


le nubian - Mar 02, 2013 4:46:46 pm PST #13419 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

One of the things I really like to do (and this is probably since college) is listen to "World" music - notably from Latin America and Africa. I like the different rhythms of that music periodically combined with some current pop and my old standards (80s and 90s music). I used to listen to lot more new music 10 years ago than I do now, maybe I will change that!

I also used to listen to a lot more music 10 years ago.