Well, if we followed the recipe...should be cake. A demon-violence-free-zone cake.

Lorne ,'Why We Fight'


Natter 69: Practically names itself.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


smonster - Dec 01, 2011 5:37:08 am PST #9401 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Check out this crazy Gothic birdcage. [link]


§ ita § - Dec 01, 2011 5:39:13 am PST #9402 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

He's not right because he's Stephen Fry (video), but it bears thinking about. I reserve the right to agree and disagree in parts.

Check out this crazy Gothic birdcage.

I don't get where the bird goes! You could totally lose it in all that finery!


Allyson - Dec 01, 2011 5:46:19 am PST #9403 of 30001
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

I'm exhausted. Windpocalypse kept me and Kristen and the animals up all night huddled around candles. There were weird lights and we thought the Cloverfield monster was going to start eating hipsters in the neighborhood.

JPL is open because they are fucksticks who want us to die on the way in, apparently. I woke up late due to no sleep and no alarm and am trying to shake off sleepiness so I can shower and get to work.


Toddson - Dec 01, 2011 5:51:30 am PST #9404 of 30001
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

For the Gothic birdcage - perhaps a very small bat.


§ ita § - Dec 01, 2011 6:25:08 am PST #9405 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I know people here have mentioned they sometimes accept meeting invites without sending a response. Are there meeting organisers who prefer that? Is there an attendee cutoff limit at which you'd prefer not to get them?

I ask because there's an evasive developer/analyst I've been asked to wrangle. He's in no way my responsibility--we're not on the same team, and I don't manage him. He doesn't return phone calls or emails, and sounds startled when I mention his deliverables during team meetings. I've been asked to get him back on track so they don't have to resort to official escalation and get him in trouble (because my role on this project is *officially* fixer).

I throw together a meeting that's really all about making sure he's got the right list of to-dos and to see if we can get dates from him. It's the last step before ratting him out to the boss (penultimate before formal escalation). Everyone sends a meeting response from him. Him I end up calling an hour before the meeting to work out if I have to put his ass in a sling or not.

Dude? Why?

Also--I've found here it's much more likely to be developers who don't send responses. But you don't have to say anything in them! It's not like contact avoidance comes into play! I just need to tally headcount, man. Help a person out.


DavidS - Dec 01, 2011 6:26:05 am PST #9406 of 30001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

He's not right because he's Stephen Fry (video), but it bears thinking about. I reserve the right to agree and disagree in parts.

Well, I concur with him but I'm on record as anti-presciptivist. Also, I find the kind of pedantry that Fry dislikes to be dull and contrary to the livelier impulses in language that he espouses.


§ ita § - Dec 01, 2011 6:29:21 am PST #9407 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

But Fry argues against needing language "correct" on business signs, and then argues for correct language in a professional environment. When did a business become unprofessional? Ralph's isn't in my basement.


Toddson - Dec 01, 2011 6:30:08 am PST #9408 of 30001
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

ita - it's possible that meeting notices get sent to his junk/spam folder. Or that he doesn't realize what they are. Or he ignores e-mail. Or, possibly, he's a jerk.


§ ita § - Dec 01, 2011 6:49:39 am PST #9409 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

No, he read the invite. He accepted the meeting. He just chose not to send a response when he added it to his calendar. There are four people invited to the meeting. He's the guest of honour. I will not be overwhelmed by email traffic. Keep a meeting organiser informed, will you?


SuziQ - Dec 01, 2011 7:13:42 am PST #9410 of 30001
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

I rarely, if ever, send a response with my meeting acceptances.

I'm "at work". As in, we are having a craft fair today and I have a table set-up. Also have the work computer set-up. Will try to juggle. I've sold two ornaments so far. The gal with the embroidered toilet paper is back. Her table is directly across from me.