Buffy: Synchronized slaying. Faith: New Olympic category?

'Conversations with Dead People'


Natter 69: Practically names itself.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Liese S. - Nov 25, 2011 6:13:42 am PST #8396 of 30001
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

I don't use an overall productivity method, but I use Autofocus for my todo list management. And of course I use flylady for my home organization stuff. It was nice not to be scrambling before we left for this month-long trip.


Laura - Nov 25, 2011 6:17:16 am PST #8397 of 30001
Our wings are not tired.

Stuffing and cranberry plate for breakfast here. Yum.

I keep my lists for shopping, work, to do, etc on my phone. I have always had limited memory function so I developed note taking skills early.


smonster - Nov 25, 2011 6:34:35 am PST #8398 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

I had seen the David Seah stuff before, but I think it's time to revisit. And oooo, Liese - that Autofocus system is tantalizing. I think that might work for my brain.

To deal with demand resistance, a strategy in acronym form from DBT: VITALS.
Validate the feeling of "don't wanna."
Imagine yourself doing the task peacefully and productively
Take small steps
Applaud yourself for making progress
Lighten the future load (think about how good it'll feel to be done)
Sweeten the pot (play music you like or promise yourself a small reward for completion)

You can use any or all of the steps that work for you. It's helpful to me to have an actual procedure to break down getting through that feeling of resistance.

Of course, I'm typing this from my bed where I'm slounging when I need to be packing. You still have to use it to make it work.


Sophia Brooks - Nov 25, 2011 6:36:13 am PST #8399 of 30001
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

Thank you smonster.


erikaj - Nov 25, 2011 6:42:26 am PST #8400 of 30001
Always Anti-fascist!

"Autofocus" is the title of a really weird episode of Homicide(if memory serves it's the Baltimore-hangman one) and as such is the name of a fanfic archive. So I'm kind of blinking right now. Just so you know.


§ ita § - Nov 25, 2011 7:00:44 am PST #8401 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I can't do any set of steps that involves applauding myself. Yeah, I have a slight desperation for external validation in the form of gold stars or cold hard cash, but I really can't do it myself. That makes me feel weird.

I thought I might have linked to the funniest thing ever yesterday or the day before, but I was wrong. This is it. It's too funny to limit to the Comedy thread, even. Srsly.


le nubian - Nov 25, 2011 7:08:39 am PST #8402 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

Okay, so there was an incident of a shopper in Los Angeles who used pepper spray against fellow shoppers in order to acquire an Xbox.

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Now, I hear reports that store security in North Carolina used pepper spray against shoppers.

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I find both incidents incredibly disturbing. I wonder if this too liberal use of pepper spray will cause law enforcement to think about their own use of the product and the image it is projecting to the nation. If police casually use this item (and they have been BEFORE the Occupy movements, let us not kid ourselves), why can't Tom, Dick, Jane, and Martha use it for our own purposes?

It's all really sad.


smonster - Nov 25, 2011 7:16:37 am PST #8403 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

I can't do any set of steps that involves applauding myself.

So don't. You choose the ones that work for you. I don't use "Imagine" because it doesn't work for me at all.

I thought I might have linked to the funniest thing ever yesterday or the day before, but I was wrong. This is it. It's too funny to limit to the Comedy thread, even. Srsly.

Holy effin' shiz, that is awesome.

le n, absolutely horrifying.


bon bon - Nov 25, 2011 7:21:11 am PST #8404 of 30001
It's five thousand for kissing, ten thousand for snuggling... End of list.

I think I might be the only employee on my floor today. I haven't received an email since Wednesday. Most troubling, I'm almost out of Internet!


Theodosia - Nov 25, 2011 7:21:43 am PST #8405 of 30001
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

At least they were using pepper spray and not bullets.

I hear you on the traffic issue, Sophia -- same for a bicycle. There's enough bikes and bicycle lanes around Somerville and Cambridge that I wouldn't feel unsafe (or no more unsafe than if I was walking!) because the drivers have gotten "educated" about looking out for them and driving past them. Also, there's a fair number of bike paths where you have to look out for dogs and walkers for their own safety!