Jayne (Husband): Oh, I think you might wanna reconsider that last part. See, I married me a powerful ugly creature. Mal (Wife): How can you say that? How can you shame me in front of new people? Jayne (Husband): If I could make you purtier, I would. Mal (Wife): You are not the man I met a year ago.

'Our Mrs. Reynolds'


Natter 69: Practically names itself.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


bon bon - Feb 12, 2012 10:18:30 am PST #21636 of 30001
It's five thousand for kissing, ten thousand for snuggling... End of list.

I found that not having any caffeine after twelve noon did make a big difference.

Same here.


meara - Feb 12, 2012 10:19:41 am PST #21637 of 30001

So, I've been on this diet for a few days (today is Day #5!) and mostly been very good about it (the banana and mini larabar after the 5K are not on the diet, but felt necessary). One thing is no caffeine (I can have one cup of coffee, but since I don't like it without cream, no caffeine).

Last night I went out, and rather than have alcoholic drinks, I had two diet Cokes. And MAN, a few days without caffeine and I was blasting off the walls, dancing like crazy even though my friends were mostly just sitting down. Madness!


sarameg - Feb 12, 2012 10:19:42 am PST #21638 of 30001

My cats have imprisoned me and I've done nothing as planned. Oops?


Matt the Bruins fan - Feb 12, 2012 10:31:44 am PST #21639 of 30001
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

Liese, does white noise help you relax? I've heard some people swear by it.

The pitch blackness thing has never worked for my sleep unless I'm physically exhausted. Having a TV on (even silently) or reading by lamp are much more likely to put me out.


tommyrot - Feb 12, 2012 10:47:10 am PST #21640 of 30001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

Have folks seen this? From The Onion's AV Club, Crushes on fictional characters

Willow, Fred and Kaylee all make appearances.

The response to this one is easy: Kaylee Frye from Firefly. You can have Inara. Just fine by me. Zoe? Go for it. Both are strong, smart women and certainly worthy of crushdom. But Jewel Staite’s performance renders Kaylee earthy yet innocent, leaving the ship’s mechanic in a place where I could plausibly trick oneself into believing I’d have a shot with her, should all the stars in the ’verse align correctly. She’s someone you could bring home to your parents, and they would have no idea about the things she enjoyed doing in the engine room. Approachable, sensual, and with a heart as open as the galaxy itself, Kaylee stands as the acme of my character crushes.


§ ita § - Feb 12, 2012 10:57:06 am PST #21641 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Those are pretty much the rules for sleep I was given. I ended up cutting out pretty much anything stronger than a green tea, and even then, not after two. My psychologist and specialist differed on toughing it out in bed, though. One said if you can't sleep after an hour, get up, change your context, and try again in half an hour. In that tune, consider things to change your body temperature, including a shower. Doc, on the other hand, said wait it out in bed. I usually move where I'm trying to sleep that night, period. I don't like the shower myself, for purely psychological reasons. I associate them with waking up.

Hospital is dicking me around and then un-dicking, and then redoing. I will leave AMA if that's what it takes to get me to work tomorrow. They're so fucking inconsistent. Ballistic.


Consuela - Feb 12, 2012 11:16:36 am PST #21642 of 30001
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

Yikes, ita, I can't believe you're still there.

As for sleep hygeine, I often find that listening to podcasts helps me sleep: or at least it gives me soemthing to do while I'm lying there staring at the ceiling.


Strix - Feb 12, 2012 11:25:37 am PST #21643 of 30001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

Yep, people already listed all the sleep hygiene things I follow.

In addition, I suggest a ritual: no, no goats (unless that helps.) Something you do every night to signal your brain it's time for bed.

It'll vary from person to person. I try to segue from work brain to sleepy brain: I write my list of things I gotta get done tomorrow and circle the top 3 gottas, then I try to change locale -- maybe do my nails on the couch while reading a magazine, or wash my face really well and crawl in bed with a magazine. No books, they will keep me up.


Typo Boy - Feb 12, 2012 11:42:59 am PST #21644 of 30001
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.

One tip on hot baths/showers. You should finish the water experience no more than two hours before bedtime, no less than three. Less than two and the energizing you get may exceed the relaxation. More than three and most of the relaxation wears off.


Liese S. - Feb 12, 2012 11:56:50 am PST #21645 of 30001
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

I've killed the caffeine entirely, and honestly I think that might have been part of the start of the issues. I had bad caffeine withdrawal for about a week while I puzzled over what could possibly be wrong with me. And during that time, got my sleep schedule all wonky.

I'm doing most of that stuff, except the electronics which I will start tonight. But I think the getting up regularly part will be a bigger thing. I think I'm going to do that, at about 4:30 when I haven't slept yet, and then I fall asleep finally, and am asleep through about 10:30-11:30 on afternoon work days. So I think I just have to get up as if it was a morning work day every day, and just be exhausted those couple of days and hopefully get turned back around.

I seriously don't need any more nights of reading Dance Moms recaps on tvgasm.