What's wrong with "my wife/partner is pregnant" ?

Is "we're expecting" bad? Because they both are expecting a baby; the woman is just expecting to deliver the baby.

I totally don't know this stuff.

"Expecting" is fine, I think. A little old-fashioned, but way better than "we're pregnant." (Unless the "we" in question is a lesbian couple who are each having a baby. Otherwise, no "we"!)

What's wrong with "my wife/partner is pregnant" ?

I think I was unclear. I didn't mean a way to express the fact that one's spouse is pregnant. I just meant that there is an experiential truth to the idea that pregnancy is meaningful even if you aren't the pregnant person. I wouldn't say my husband got pregnant, in other words, but I wouldn't balk at the idea that he wanted to express some ownership over that experience.

I didn't read the original exchange ita referred to. If all it was was some guy saying "I'm pregnant" instead of "my wife is pregnant" or "we're expecting" then yeah, kinda weird.

He was saying that pregnancies shouldn't be outsourced to external wombs. He starts off by saying that pregnancy is natural and pregnant women are beautiful and the experience is wonderful.

I said that evaluation was best left to the people who actually get pregnant, and he said he's been through it twice before, because he's a dad.

My takeaway from that and discussion is that pregnancy is just beautiful enough for him, and I haven't been a father, so I couldn't understand, and I can't raise any points of unpleasant pregnancies for some women. If we're going to rate people's visceral involvement in pregnancy and childbirth, you pretty much put the pregnant woman at the top, and everyone can scrabble about it as circumstance dictates.

Good, god, my doctor is letting me run out of methadone again. I really have no idea what their process is for drugs like this. So far I've had a pissy doctor turn in the script, and then I've had a less pissy admin take it to the pharmacy for me. This is absolutely not the sensible way to do it (good for me, because I'm lazy), but it's dumb.

Not looking at additional holes of any kind.

I don't think my water ever broke on its own. But I don't remember them breaking it with Sara, either. I guess it went somewhere at some point.

I think S. can say more about Jake's birth than most dads, since he saw it and I didn't. The anesthesiologist knocked me out accidentally, so he saw the whole C-section and held Jake and all that while I was unconscious. The pregnancy was all mine, though, for sure.

The phrase "we're pregnant" make me think of the '70s. It refers to an expectant father who'd attend childbirth classes, be in the delivery room, and do other things that were enlightened then and unremarkable now.

If a man is going to be more than a sperm donor, fatherhood is going to change his life completely. English needs some way of acknowledging that reality. Beyond that, I got nothing.

He was saying that pregnancies shouldn't be outsourced to external wombs.

Oh you were being nice to him, ita. I can't even follow his logic.

If a man is going to be more than a sperm donor, fatherhood is going to change his life completely. English needs some way of acknowledging that reality.

Becoming a parent doesn't work for you?

That Io9 list doesn't mention Farscape. I'm not sure if I'm pleased or annoyed at being ignored. ::shrugs::

I am going to ignore all the talk about extra holes and pregnancies, and note that I splurged on Popeye's for lunch, and got a salted caramel cupcake at a food truck for later. Of course, as I stood in line at Popeye's, my boss walked past and snarked at me.

I want a caramel cupcake. We have no cupcake trucks.

The news is having all kinds of fun with the fact that the boat show had a flood after a 200,000-gallon wave pool collapsed. "It's high tide at the boat show." "It's a good day for a boat." "Rising tide did not lift Atlanta boat show."

It was probably not amusing to the people who had to clean up.