I have god parents - I don't know them well and they havent been a big part of my life - but they have been a big part of my parents life - so they are important people in my parents life that aren't family. I've met them a few times as an adult, I like them

I keep meaning to do that! Old menus are fascinating.

It's nice because you can just do five minutes. Or an hour.

In terms of bifocals progressive. People vary in how they adjust. My mom has trifocals and they work fine for her. I tried bifocals and progressive both. I just could not adjust and ended up with separate distance and reading. Most people adjust fine, a few don't and you can't predict in advance which is which. Bifocals and progressive are cheaper than separate pairs (at least for prescriptions as strong as mine). I'd try the progressive or a bifocal but only with the understanding with the optomerist that you can return them for your money back and buy two pairs instead of they don't work out. Most optometrists will agree to that.

Oh, joy. During my oil change, they discovered my transmission fluid is black and smells burnt. That doesn't sound good. The Internet seems to think my transmission may be ruined, but it looks like I should take it in for transmission service soon at least.

Y'all, I had a lovely smonster + amyth + Calli + non-buffista but buffista-adjacent and of-the-nerd-tribe friends!

It was awesome! And I'm just thinking belatedly that we should have taken the opportunity to take a group heart picture. WITH SUSHI. Alas!

Kate, I think that's a lovely gesture as well. But I'm all about the created family.

Anyone for some schadenfreude, fresh out of the oven?

PR man to find out if what they say about "any publicity" is true

After weeks of promises, a game controller company failed to deliver a long-placed order in time for Christmas. The customer complained, carbon- copying his email to industry bloggers and luminaries. The company's representative not only threw abuse back at the customer, calling him a "bitch", but boasted abut his relationships with the CCd editors of Kotaku, IGN, Penny Arcade, and so on. Can you guess how that worked out for him?

Second link goes to Penny Arcade, where the emails are. This PR guy is almost in "My marketing efforts will dominate your face" territory....

Burrell, many glass places allow for a 30 day return period so don't fret too much. Research your options, go forth w/ glasses and if you hate them, exchange.

That sounds like a lovely gesture, Kate.

Rainy here. Brought my mother back from the hospital today, and all is well. Oral antibios. Gotta say, for a hospital over the holidays stay, it was very non-traumatic, thank goodness. Thanks for all the kind words.

My older sister is here today for our final leg of Christmas. They're upstairs making food. I'm hermiting in the basement for a bit as I have been the primary logistics arranger and visitor at the hospital (my sister and her partner went up to her parents for their Christmas on the 26th). I need my quiet time!

My found family and my blood family are all lovely people, and I am, therefore, incredibly lucky. And I am so very glad I clicked on whatever link it was that lead me to this place those many years ago. Can't imagine otherwise!

PR man to find out if what they say about "any publicity" is true

Whoa.

JenP, I'm glad to hear your mother is home from the hospital! May her recovery continue to go easily.

Yes, Jen, glad your mom's back home, and things were non-traumatic, all things considered.