Chex mix, and Chex muddy buddies!
'Shindig'
Natter 69: Practically names itself.
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
sarameg, you totally made my friend S's kid's day, thank you -- she just messaged me to say he was so excited. Wait until he sees the picture tomorrow. Kid's going to plotz. Score one for Team Science!
Ceral (for real!):
Chex muddy buddies!
I can never, ever be allowed to make those again, because I never end up sharing them with the people involved in whatever pretext I've come up with for making them. They are my precioussss.
A former neighbor used to give us a big jar of it every year, homemade.
Oh god. Matilda is turning into one of those kids who weeps and wails over doing homework. Two nights, and three hours of struggle to draw one fucking picture.
And it's that, "I hate it because it's not perfect" so she keeps erasing shit and undermining herself.
Dear perfectionism: go fuck yourself. It is the impulse to perfectionism that stymies all the shit we need to go through to grow and get better.
Shitty drafts. Sketchbooks. Drawerfic. Finish it! Do it! Make it! Finish it and say fuck it and make something better! But don't DON'T do it because it's not right.
No crossing out. No erasing until you're done. No revising until it's on the page. No stopping until Hammersmith.
You must do shitty work to do good work. It is the law.
I swear to god I'm going to cut the erasers off her pencils.
It's hell to be at the age when you can tell that it's no good but don't have the skills yet to make it good.
(I may still be at that age. Sigh.)
Well, she hasn't cried for ten minutes now and after one time out and two threatened timeouts seems to be close to finishing a thoroughly charming, entirely apt for a five year old drawing.
I'm with Theo.
I cannot draw worth two damns. I would be crying too.
I'm definitely at that age. I can't make myself pick up a pencil again. Ration has nowt to do with it.