I can beat up demons until the cows come home, and then I can beat up the cows.

Buffy ,'Dirty Girls'


Natter 69: Practically names itself.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


brenda m - Dec 09, 2011 5:04:30 am PST #10658 of 30001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Le nub, I liked one of the suggestions in that link where the student has to redo the paper in order to pass, but will stll get a zero grade for the assignment. That seems like a decent balance of mercy and consequences, given that it's a student you think merits another chance.


Zenkitty - Dec 09, 2011 5:05:08 am PST #10659 of 30001
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Or is it better to force her to go through some training and rewrite the paper?

This, if she honestly didn't know she shouldn't do that. If she knew darn well what plagiarism is and that it's wrong, and did it anyway? I guess it would depend on her attitude. I might be harsh.

Do you wear the gloves outside of driving?

I wear gardening gloves doing yardwork. Otherwise on the rare occasions I'm outside in the sun, like going for a walk, I'll wear sunscreen. I don't do outdoor sports so it's not a question.

My teenage aversion to lying out in the sun for hours to get a tan seems to have paid off, as my skin seems to me to be pretty good for 52. Avoiding sun damage by accident! Aside from that, it's all genetics, which I can't take much responsibility for.

Yeah, this is me. Refusal to lie out in the sun, plus a night job throughout my 20s that had me sleeping during the sunniest part of the day.

Sodium lauryl sulfate or sodium laureth sulfate

Sulfates are very harsh and drying. Curly hair tends to be dry anyway, so they're especially bad for curly hair. Mine looks much better when I avoid sulfates. It's suffering right now because I spent two years dying it red, which was really tough because the gray didn't want to hold on to the color. It's a frizzy mess. I've contemplated cutting it all off and starting over. It would almost certainly be healthier if I let it grow out gray, but I'm just not ready to be gray-haired yet.


le nubian - Dec 09, 2011 5:16:17 am PST #10660 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

I think in this circumstance, having her redo the assignment and still giving her a zero is a punishment without benefit. She would not pass the class if she got a zero for the assignment. it's the final paper and is too much of her grade.


tommyrot - Dec 09, 2011 5:47:39 am PST #10661 of 30001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

When puppies attack


Hil R. - Dec 09, 2011 5:51:01 am PST #10662 of 30001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I've found that the Mixed Chicks kids products work great on my hair. (I tried the adult ones, and they worked, but the fragrance was so overpowering that I couldn't stand it.) No 'poo tends to leave my hair a greasy mess, and I've never yet had the patience to see if it would get better in time.


smonster - Dec 09, 2011 5:51:45 am PST #10663 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

I can pop most of my joints on command. My standard joke is "snap, crackle, pop - play rugby." I have got to get back into yoga, and then maybe add a martial art on top of that when my back is better (pulled a muscle at work). Getting older, does, indeed, suck mightily, and having bad joints does not help.

I still look young for my age, but I expect that to flip at some point. I tanned some when I was younger (in the sun, not a bed), and work outside, and have gotten lazy about sunscreen, and am still smoking on and off. Whoops.

I tried the no-poo thing, and my hair had more body than it had ever had but I developed very itchy dandruff and gave it up. I was washing my hair every 3 days but now I wash every day to get dirt and lead paint and such out.


Steph L. - Dec 09, 2011 5:57:35 am PST #10664 of 30001
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

The strength training program I've been on for the past couple of years has paid off immensely in terms of general well-being and ability to do stuff that was extraordinarily difficult and taxing just a few years ago (moving furniture, flipping mattresses, doing yardwork).

Man, I have gotta get ON THIS. I always have good intentions to start weight training, and then something will happen, like the crazy hip pain, and then I think, well, I should wait to start until my [hip/back/whatever] no longer hurts. And the result is that I never do get around to doing it.


Sue - Dec 09, 2011 6:05:43 am PST #10665 of 30001
hip deep in pie

I need to get back on the exercise train. Ever since I stopped regular yoga because I hurt my back I have been feeling my age.

I've been finding myself in a bad non-exercising downward spiral. The more I am achy, the less I want to exercise. The less I exercise, the achier I get.


Ginger - Dec 09, 2011 6:16:42 am PST #10666 of 30001
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

I was doing pretty well before the plantar fasciitis, two-month cold and the dislocated rib. I'm tired of my body falling apart in innovative and painful ways.


DavidS - Dec 09, 2011 6:21:04 am PST #10667 of 30001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I've got to say the core-focused workouts that Emmett does for Krav have really had a noticeable result. Then again, he's flooded with so much testosterone and HGH right now that simply getting up from the couch would give him a six-pack.

Monday was his first kiss. Yesterday he had lots of kissing. He's enjoying it. Oh well, practice makes perfect.

We've got Matilda's yeast infection under control but it's still making her yelp and cry when she pees. It's really added a whole new layer of stress to getting dressed for school since on top of the waking her up, feeding her breakfast and getting her dressed, now we also have an elaborate peeing process (while pouring warm water over her), and lotion application and drinking of medicine. And all of these seem to cause tears and meltdowns which require additional soothing and calming to get on to the next thing.