I mean, I want everything done to find her

I'm pretty sure she was found dead, sadly.

Was she the body I was seeing stories of? I only followed the story in snippets when I was buying bagels.

I saw something about a body found in a river with her name associated, yeah.

I wonder if only local news carries some of the other missing kid stories *because* they're more often [assumed to be, I should have said] disputes, or are taken by someone they know, that kind of thing.

The way the national news will focus on just one case, every once in a while, and really splash it all over, is infuriating, though.

Twitchy. Abductions freak me the fuck out.

I culled 2 bags of clothes today. Whee

I was actually going to say about your stats, ita, but you said it for me -- 90% of those 2000 cases aren't kidnappings, they're runaways or family abductions, for the most part. There are not that many kids who are not otherwise at-risk who are murdered/kidnapped by strangers. Yeah, it's obnoxious that the news focuses on white kids, but it's a relatively rare thing for crime to happen to someone in a low-risk environment, and that's news. Man bites dog, and all that.

But the press didn't say "Kidnapped child". The press said "missing child". There are tons and tons of those. I can see 115 stereotypical kidnapping making metro news, the odd one going national. But from what I could see, they just plain couldn't find her, and she was one of the 2000.

Hey, it's only 90 degrees here now. I can take out the stank cat box and office trash, water the flowers and take an effing shower. GROSS.

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Names -- I like the BabyName Dad's Last Name YourLastname solution.

We've got a mess o' names. M shares D's last name (ex wanted stepdad to adopt M so they could all have the same last name, and D was all "Hell, no!")

Mom reverted to maiden name, ans, AFAIK, kept maiden name. Yeah, @@ on her adoption rationale, there.

I kept my last name, because (a) I would have anyway and (B) Dan's bro is Aaron, and to be Erin LastName and Aaron LastName would have been creepy and confusing.

So it's Erin Gsfkfkkj, Dan Jkjkhjkj + M Jkjkhjkj; E Rhjkkj, K Bjjlkj, M Jkjkhjkj and T Bjjlkj. 4 last names for the kiddo to remember, poor noodle. He sees it all as normal, though, so that's what matters.

The press said "missing child". There are tons and tons of those. I can see 115 stereotypical kidnapping making metro news, the odd one going national. But from what I could see, they just plain couldn't find her, and she was one of the 2000.

They're not talking about "missing kid." They're talking about "newsworthy missing kid." There are things they aren't saying that are implicit that make it newsworthy, and the people who read these stories take that as a given -- she likely didn't run away, she was in a low-risk environment, and she wasn't kidnapped by an estranged family member. She's not one of the 2000, and that's why she's news.

Newsworthy isn't a just criterion, it's a criterion that simply means what are people interested in reading about? It's too bad that people aren't terribly interested in the hunger crisis in Somalia, but there's no rule that the news has to prioritize stories based on how many people are suffering by it. People want to read about unlikely things, not another custody dispute that leads to a domestic kidnapping.

She's not one of the 2000, and that's why she's news.

And if it turns out to be accidental death, then it's heartrending, and a chance to do a spate of stories on Dangers to Kids for ratings.

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