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William ,'Conversations with Dead People'


Natter 68: Bork Bork Bork  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


tommyrot - Jul 27, 2011 6:00:38 pm PDT #18325 of 30001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

I don't want to watch shows that make me cry. I've done enough crying for one life. What's the point, anyway? Catharsis? It's awful.

About 17 years ago I briefly dated a woman who subscribed to the belief that regular bouts of crying were good for you, so you should intentionally make yourself cry periodically. About two times a day in her case.

Perhaps I could use a good cry about now. I just feel really stressed out for some reason, and maybe some of the stress would go away if I had a good cry.

edit for math error.


le nubian - Jul 27, 2011 6:02:00 pm PDT #18326 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

sarameg,

did you speak to Target personnel? You really need something for your trouble. That's terrible.


smonster - Jul 27, 2011 6:02:56 pm PDT #18327 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

So, that is a good sign, right?

Definitely.


Zenkitty - Jul 27, 2011 6:04:55 pm PDT #18328 of 30001
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

I find that a "good cry" is great for relieving stress, especially stress of the free-floating anxiety type. But I can cry pretty much by deciding to. Being made to cry by something like a movie when I wasn't expecting or wanting it is unpleasant and leaves me feeling wiped out but not relaxed.

Making herself cry twice a day? Jeepers. I can't help thinking she had some serious unresolved trauma.


tommyrot - Jul 27, 2011 6:08:50 pm PDT #18329 of 30001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

Making herself cry twice a day? Jeepers. I can't help thinking she had some serious unresolved trauma.

I dunno. She was a very peaceful woman, if that makes sense.

This might be some kind of New Age-y thing. Anyway, a number of people practice this.

eta: I can't. But a sad movie can usually get the tears flowing.


le nubian - Jul 27, 2011 6:09:00 pm PDT #18330 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

tommyrot,

what about a good laugh - like laughing until you cry? That relieves a whole lot of stress for me.


tommyrot - Jul 27, 2011 6:11:27 pm PDT #18331 of 30001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

what about a good laugh - like laughing until you cry? That relieves a whole lot of stress for me.

That works for me. But rarely find things that make me laugh for more than a few seconds.


Java cat - Jul 27, 2011 6:14:35 pm PDT #18332 of 30001
Not javachik

It sounds like the character Jane Craig that Holly Hunter played in Broadcast News. She'd take her phone off the hook every morning and have a short cry, then get on with her intense, stressful job.


tommyrot - Jul 27, 2011 6:23:34 pm PDT #18333 of 30001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

Come to think of it, a good workout is a great stress release for me. I haven't ridden my bike in weeks because of this heatwave. Maybe I'll join the gym that's a block away.


tommyrot - Jul 27, 2011 6:25:01 pm PDT #18334 of 30001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

Kosher Pork in Sunnyside

No really.

(Actually, a labeling mistake.)