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Natter 68: Bork Bork Bork  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


askye - Jul 21, 2011 7:40:24 pm PDT #17586 of 30001
Thrive to spite them

There are some good personal finance blogs out there, that deal with a variety of issues. Get Rich Slowly is one I read often. It was started as being a one person blog but now it's written by several people. Also there are "Reader's Stories" where people contribute about their real life experiences both good and bad when it comes to finances and things.

Also Donna Freedman writes for MSN Money (her articles are here [link] and has a personal blog - [link]


Amy - Jul 21, 2011 7:40:45 pm PDT #17587 of 30001
Because books.

Oh, if her name is on the lease, too, then yeah. Or maybe you pay one deposit, she pays another, to make it easier to get them back later?


meara - Jul 21, 2011 7:45:42 pm PDT #17588 of 30001

Money question - I had to pay deposits/installation fees for water ($125), power/gas ($150), and cable ($150). It makes sense to split those costs with my roommate, right? There's no reason for me to pay all of it by myself, is there?

Well, if it's a deposit and you get the money back, no, it doesn't make sense to split them. Too confusing. (You could split them as Amy said, one of you do one, one do the other...but if you've already paid them might be hard). For installation fees, sure, maybe.

I rent out a room in my house and was splitting all the bills with my roomie the first year, but it was such a hassle to not only pay them (er, I'm bad at that) but also manage to figure out how much he owed each time? Yikes. So for the new roomie I figured out how much it averages and just told her a total including utilities/cable/etc.


megan walker - Jul 21, 2011 7:45:45 pm PDT #17589 of 30001
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist

Or maybe you pay one deposit, she pays another, to make it easier to get them back later?

You can spin it that it's always good to have at least one utility in your name for proof of address, etc.


P.M. Marc - Jul 21, 2011 8:15:27 pm PDT #17590 of 30001
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Twinkie Tiramisu
Someone here has made that in the past. Plei? No, that was the vegan one. Maybe bon?

I made the recipe for it. It may be in the cookbook.

I had a thing for tiramisu and too much free time.


bon bon - Jul 21, 2011 8:35:07 pm PDT #17591 of 30001
It's five thousand for kissing, ten thousand for snuggling... End of list.

I did try cooking it, so you're actually not far off.


smonster - Jul 21, 2011 9:21:16 pm PDT #17592 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Today's Google doodle is a virtual Alexander Calder mobile you can spin. [link]


Connie Neil - Jul 21, 2011 10:28:01 pm PDT #17593 of 30001
brillig

I never understood how a mobile was such high art. It's pretty and all, but it's a mobile. Then again, my appreciation of most modern art is lacking.


le nubian - Jul 22, 2011 1:37:21 am PDT #17594 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

Megan,

Not using credit cards is a very effective budgeting tool.

I have been using credit cards my entire adult life and I have found it to be a really important budgeting tool. Years ago, I would pay everything by credit cards if I could because I had a reward card that gave me realy good cash back. I need that $50 every other month (or whatever) and in the rare instance I had disputes with vendors, my credit card company would have my back.

I now pay all but one of my utility bills via credit card.

I used to put a line in my checking account register for every credit card charge I had so I could pay my credit card off every month. I had budget categories and I would watch my credit card and cash expenditures to keep things in categories.


billytea - Jul 22, 2011 2:14:04 am PDT #17595 of 30001
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

xkcd: [link] I feel catered to.