Death is your art. You make it with your hands day after day. That final gasp, that look of peace. And part of you is desperate to know: What's it like? Where does it lead you? And now you see, that's the secret. Not the punch you didn't throw or the kicks you didn't land. She really wanted it. Every Slayer has a death wish. Even you.

Spike ,'Conversations with Dead People'


Natter 68: Bork Bork Bork  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


DebetEsse - Jun 07, 2011 6:02:38 pm PDT #11880 of 30001
Woe to the fucking wicked.

So, I'm going to be looking for part-time digs for the days I am out of town at Grad School. A church friend knows someone right by campus who is looking for a roommate and sent an introductions email.

What would you want to know about a potential roommate?


Amy - Jun 07, 2011 6:03:00 pm PDT #11881 of 30001
Because books.

There are plenty of playgrounds/parks where there aren't restrictions. And where someone reading a book or just sitting getting some sun while watching the kids play wouldn't raise an eyebrow. It's not a universal thing, especially outside of really urban areas.


Pix - Jun 07, 2011 6:06:40 pm PDT #11882 of 30001
The status is NOT quo.

Yep, all very true.

Debet, I'd want to know what kind of hours s/he keeps, guests, pets, etc. Mostly I'd want to get a sense of his/her personality.


Consuela - Jun 07, 2011 6:07:01 pm PDT #11883 of 30001
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

What would you want to know about a potential roommate?

What their hours are; are they at home all the time; do they travel; what kind of music do they listen to; is there a bf/gf who would stay over often; do they have pets and what are they; is there a truly common common space; are they willing to share some foodstuffs or do you have to buy everything on your own including basics (milk, flour, cheese, etc); do you get your own bath and if not when do they use it; whether they'd be willing to go in on a housecleaner every few weeks so neither of you ends up getting resentful about unequal distribution of labor.

signed, I have had too many roommates.


P.M. Marc - Jun 07, 2011 6:11:22 pm PDT #11884 of 30001
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

There are plenty of playgrounds/parks where there aren't restrictions. And where someone reading a book or just sitting getting some sun while watching the kids play wouldn't raise an eyebrow. It's not a universal thing, especially outside of really urban areas.

I sure as hell hope it doesn't become a massive national trend. My visceral squick is just that strong. Speaking as a parent.


DebetEsse - Jun 07, 2011 6:12:28 pm PDT #11885 of 30001
Woe to the fucking wicked.

Hmmm, Consuela, that sounds like a great list of issues to discuss t bookmarking but possibly a bit much for my, "Hi, I'm Abi" email.


Trudy Booth - Jun 07, 2011 6:15:06 pm PDT #11886 of 30001
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

They don't let people in the dog runs without a dog either.


sarameg - Jun 07, 2011 6:16:44 pm PDT #11887 of 30001

My neighbor rented out her house for the summer. Major selling points for her was they wanted to pay all the rent upfront, they're a couple with a newborn, decisive moveout date, etc. However, with a roomie situation, might not want to offer full rent in case they are assholes.


Allyson - Jun 07, 2011 7:24:51 pm PDT #11888 of 30001
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

They should make a law making it illegal for kids to be around me.

I actually witnessed you saving a small child from being crushed by a truck, there, wonder woman.


Allyson - Jun 07, 2011 7:26:07 pm PDT #11889 of 30001
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

You SPRUNG INTO ACTION.

Seriously, I wish I had a YouTube of it. You should have the key to the city. Or Urth Cafe. You should have a key to something is what I'm saying.