Handsome brooding vampire guy has to swoop in all sensitive mouth and overhanging forehead. How 'bout leaving some scraps for the homely-looking fellows who don't turn evil when they get some?

Doyle ,'Life of the Party'


Natter 66: Get Your Kicks.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, pandas, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


beekaytee - Aug 20, 2010 11:27:03 am PDT #19200 of 30001
Compassionately intolerant

Tactical pens

My former cop dh would SO have had that S&W pen if it had been available back in the day.

For the 28 years I went by Bj, it was a constant struggle to remind people that a) the j is small and b) I'm not a man. So, for a number of years, I lowercased all my names...probably for similar reasons to Vortex's colleague.

It was a great conversation piece most of the time.

Now, having gone back to the big girl name, I uppercase for formal situations, but lower for familiars.

Mostly, I don't care what I'm called anymore.


brenda m - Aug 20, 2010 11:27:44 am PDT #19201 of 30001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I generally don't capitalize on line, am iffy about it offline, and don't take umbrage either way.


§ ita § - Aug 20, 2010 11:29:41 am PDT #19202 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

don't take umbrage either way.

I umber, for the record.

Can someone tell my boss? I'm not sure how much longer I can get away with the passive aggressive search and replace on documents before he sends them out.


beekaytee - Aug 20, 2010 11:59:43 am PDT #19203 of 30001
Compassionately intolerant

I umber, for the record.

Oh man. I used to be the Queen of Umberland around the misuse of my name. Mine was a military reign where this was concerned.

Now, I just sigh over folks' seeming inability to see the y and the -. Honestly, are hyphenated names still so foreign that people really don't know to alphabetize by the first initial?

I can't even be upset when people say, "We have no record of your _____, Ms. T."

Um, that would be because it's not T, it's K-T. Look under the K, or vice versa. It's bound to be there somewhere.


Burrell - Aug 20, 2010 12:18:31 pm PDT #19204 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Honestly, are hyphenated names still so foreign that people really don't know to alphabetize by the first initial?

If my experience in any indication, the answer is yes.


§ ita § - Aug 20, 2010 12:22:21 pm PDT #19205 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I know my name is different, but it's not that different. So, you know, people, bite me. And that's before you get to the capitalisation thing.


Amy - Aug 20, 2010 12:32:22 pm PDT #19206 of 30001
Because books.

I'm always surprised when people ask how to spell my name, because growing up I only ever saw "Amy." Plus, Amy March!

But I know the error of my ways now.


Strix - Aug 20, 2010 12:40:35 pm PDT #19207 of 30001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

Kyriarchy is basically lady-goddess. The feminine of the Greek "kryie" which is "Lord" with god overtones. It's like matriachy, or patriachy, except no mother/fatherhood implications.

For the longest time, I thought ita was just an internet name for ITA. Except with added capoeria. (My god, that is the hardest word to remember spelling. I always get it wrong. I shall just call it CapSpinKickyDanceFight.)


Seska (the Watcher-in-Training) - Aug 20, 2010 12:41:54 pm PDT #19208 of 30001
"We're all stories, in the end. Just make it a good one, eh?"

Kyriarchy is an exceptionally cool concept. Developed by an exceptionally cool feminist theologian.

/ was never here


Scrappy - Aug 20, 2010 12:46:08 pm PDT #19209 of 30001
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

Honestly, are hyphenated names still so foreign that people really don't know to alphabetize by the first initial?

Yes, because people have different preferences. We have one hyphenate who actually wants to be treated as if the first name of her hyphenate is a middle name, so she is alphabetized by her second name. I don't know why, makes no sense, not my biz.