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Natter 65: Speed Limit Enforced by Aircraft  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, pandas, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


ChiKat - Feb 19, 2010 7:37:28 am PST #9381 of 30001
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?

ION, I'm watching Hush with my next 2 classes as a lesson on visual storytelling. I really love my job.


Steph L. - Feb 19, 2010 7:41:27 am PST #9382 of 30001
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Friday! What are people having for lunch today?

Leftover deep-dish pizza (cheese with sausage).

I am desperately curious about what's involved in sex addiction therapy.

They sit around not having sex?

That reminds me of the list of heart attack symptoms, which inevitably includes "many people have NO SYMPTOMS when they have a heart attack." So, like, I could be having a heart attack RIGHT NOW, since I'm not having any symptoms!

So, if sex rehab is sitting around not having sex, then I'm in sex rehab RIGHT NOW!

Here's, actually, where I don't see that it is sexual addiction. Because isn't sexual addiction, like gambling, or any other destructive behavior, the outlet but not actually what you're treated for in therapy? That is, you're a sexual addict because it's a result of underlying depression or some other mental health issue.

If you're a sexual addict because the underlying problem is you think you're entitled then in my mind you're an ass.

I don't think that feeling entitled is the underlying problem; I think it's part and parcel of the sexual addiction. I mean, I don't *know* that, because I don't really know anything about sexual addiction, but I would think that entitlement is part of the manifestation of the addiction, not the cause.


ChiKat - Feb 19, 2010 7:45:03 am PST #9383 of 30001
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?

Leftover deep-dish pizza (cheese with sausage).

That's what gave me food poisoning 2 weeks ago, and just reading that made my stomach churn. Guess I'll be staying away from deep dish for the foreseeable future.


-t - Feb 19, 2010 7:47:32 am PST #9384 of 30001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I hope you are feeling better, Sue, that sounds like an awful way to wake up.


Gudanov - Feb 19, 2010 7:52:15 am PST #9385 of 30001
Coding and Sleeping

Roast beef sandwich from left-over roast beef.


-t - Feb 19, 2010 7:54:19 am PST #9386 of 30001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Lunch is planned to be a grilled cheese sandwich.


Sparky1 - Feb 19, 2010 7:55:25 am PST #9387 of 30001
Librarian Warlord

but I would think that entitlement is part of the manifestation of the addiction, not the cause.

This is exactly what I'm getting at. He offered, as the reason for his behavior, his feeling of entitlement. I'm saying that if there's nothing else that caused his behavior, then he's not a sexual addict, he's a horse's patootie.


javachik - Feb 19, 2010 7:58:08 am PST #9388 of 30001
Our wings are not tired.

I don't know if you watched his speech, Sparky, and I am not defending Tiger, but he didn't offer any excuses. He specifically said that one of many problems was a feeling of entitlement - but he indicated it was wrong to feel that way.


Matt the Bruins fan - Feb 19, 2010 7:58:14 am PST #9389 of 30001
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

I just saw a program the other day about a sex addict, and she talked about doing better with a preplanned daily schedule involving exercise, meditation, lots of focus on meal preparation and such with almost no contact with other people. She didn't mention work though, which made me wonder even if you're well-off enough to not need a job in your late 20s/early 30s, wouldn't the structure and productive use of time help keep you from getting bored and going out cruising for "fun"?


lisah - Feb 19, 2010 7:59:22 am PST #9390 of 30001
Punishingly Intricate

I had a 1/2 egg salad and salad and utz from the deli downstairs. I should have brought a sandwich from home. I had the makings for one but stayed in bed too long. My sandwich would have been much better and I wouldn't have been tempted to get the chips. bleh.