Dawn: I think a date should be in a real fancy restaurant, then champagne at a night club with a floor show, then ballroom dancing. Joyce: Unfortunately, we're not dating in a movie from the thirties.

'Get It Done'


Natter 65: Speed Limit Enforced by Aircraft  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, pandas, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Jesse - Feb 10, 2010 11:59:41 am PST #7740 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

That is amazing.


megan walker - Feb 10, 2010 12:02:19 pm PST #7741 of 30001
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist

We provide our time in an office in one hour increments to help people work through their emotional difficulties. If we can't be there, or a patient can't be there, we are simply not paid.

Really? Because most health professionals I've visited will charge you for the visit if you don't cancel in time.

When my sister had an au pair she knew people who would constantly break their contracts and not get why they couldn't ask their au pair to work more than 40 hours a weeks, or stay overnight with the kids, etc.


Ginger - Feb 10, 2010 12:03:48 pm PST #7742 of 30001
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

I bet if a patient doesn't show up without giving sufficient notice that the patient gets billed. If she thinks that her billable hours as a therapist are equivalent to a nanny's hour of time, she needs a new profession.


meara - Feb 10, 2010 12:04:20 pm PST #7743 of 30001

She has no contract with her patients? Like "if you don't cancel more than 24 hours in advance you are billed $x"?!? That's not terribly well thought out of her. But kind, I suppose. Unlike most doctors and dentists and such, though.


Cashmere - Feb 10, 2010 12:08:41 pm PST #7744 of 30001
Now tagless for your comfort.

I'm thinking this parent/therapist has a Jackass Clause.


Daisy Jane - Feb 10, 2010 12:09:13 pm PST #7745 of 30001
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."

If we can't be there, or a patient can't be there, we are simply not paid.

I was gonna call bullshit, but I see other people beat me to it. I also want to know where she got her degree. My soon-to-be therapist friend expects to make quite a bit. She needs to if only to make the degree worth it.


Sparky1 - Feb 10, 2010 12:11:57 pm PST #7746 of 30001
Librarian Warlord

If she's working that way, more power to her. But it's a luxury, much like having a nanny. And her nanny probably can't afford that luxury.


JZ - Feb 10, 2010 12:16:57 pm PST #7747 of 30001
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Yup, I'm with everyone else. I have never, ever, ever heard of a therapist who didn't charge for a no-show without sufficient advance notice. And it's not a matter of kind or not-kind; my former therapist was one of the kindest people I've ever known, but she had a demanding practice with lots of patients clamoring for her time, split the office rent in an expensive district with three other therapists with similarly demanding practices, and was also juggling all this with two kids and a daily Bay Bridge commute. If she showed up for a scheduled visit and had to sit on her ass for an hour because a patient didn't show, she still had to do the commute and the rent and all the rest of the overhead entailed in any medical practice, so you bet your damn bippy she charged. And I didn't blame her a bit, either.

Sparky's correspondent sounds like an impressive triple threat: jackass, weasel and complete moron. Well played, madam, well played!


brenda m - Feb 10, 2010 12:18:47 pm PST #7748 of 30001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

To - well, I hate to say defend, but - I would assume that Snowmageddon '10 is the kind of circumstance where she is not in fact charging her patients, regardless of any 24 hour policy (that I am dead certain she has). But your contract with, and obligation to, your therapist is quite different than to your nanny.


sarameg - Feb 10, 2010 12:18:56 pm PST #7749 of 30001

Governor just told the State of Maryland to butch the hell up, essentially. I find that funny.