I get confused. I remember everything. I remember too much, and... some of it's made up, and... some of it can't be quantified, and... there's secrets.

River ,'Safe'


Natter 65: Speed Limit Enforced by Aircraft  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, pandas, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Lee - Feb 10, 2010 11:24:06 am PST #7723 of 30001
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

Lisa, fingers crossed and all the health-ma I can muster for Bob, and you.


sarameg - Feb 10, 2010 11:28:01 am PST #7724 of 30001

Power just flickered. Do not like.


flea - Feb 10, 2010 11:28:14 am PST #7725 of 30001
information libertarian

I had a nanny when I was being paid hourly. I also paid her sick time and vacation time according to our written contract (we lived in NC; it didn't snow).

At some points she was making more an hour than I was. That was fun. (I had benefits, though, and she didn't.)


Sophia Brooks - Feb 10, 2010 11:31:16 am PST #7726 of 30001
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

I was thinking that the nanny was paid hourly, not the person, although you certainly could be. What is the difference between a nanny and a babysitter?


Jesse - Feb 10, 2010 11:33:36 am PST #7727 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

The more I think about it, the more I think it should just be obvious, based on the rest of their contract/how they pay the nanny. Does she ever get paid when she doesn't work? Like holidays and stuff? I don't know, I think asking the question is the weaselly thing, not necessarily not paying.


Jessica - Feb 10, 2010 11:35:32 am PST #7728 of 30001
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

I'm guessing the parent in question pays her nanny under the table - she may not have an explicit written PTO policy.


Jesse - Feb 10, 2010 11:36:18 am PST #7729 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Sure, but even without a formal policy, there must have been days when the nanny didn't come in, right?


lisah - Feb 10, 2010 11:39:56 am PST #7730 of 30001
Punishingly Intricate

Snow days are the worst when you get paid by the hour, for sure.

I feel the worst for the small business/restaurant owners. They lost their biggest weekend (last one before xmas) to a big snowstorm and now this thing that's been going on basically non-stop since Friday. And the weekend before the weather was crappy on Saturday. It just sucks.


Jesse - Feb 10, 2010 11:41:01 am PST #7731 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I feel the worst for the small business/restaurant owners.

Oh man, total nightmare.


flea - Feb 10, 2010 11:44:06 am PST #7732 of 30001
information libertarian

A nanny is (more or less) full-time. A babysitter is someone who comes more occasionally, and usually isn't making his or her living watching the kids.