This here's a recipe for unpleasantness.

Mal ,'Objects In Space'


Natter 64: Yes, we still need you  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Strix - Dec 04, 2009 12:42:43 pm PST #23068 of 30001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

Heh. Valley of Horses was my Forever. I remember some of my slightly older girlfriends talking about how naughty Forever was when I was about 9. They showed it to me (I had no idea what it was) and I rolled my eyes, and hauled out Auel and started reading the naughty bits to them on the sidewalk outside out apartment.

I had MAD street sex cred.

I think Ginger is right with the library "talking to your kids" thing. I absolutely did not censor a thing (except manga) when it came to my classroom library. If a parent had a problem, I would absolutely allow them to determine what heir child could or could not read, but I would not allow my library to be censored. And I'm not sure I would act as a policing officer. It never came up, that a parent said "I don't want my child to read this and this" (remember, I taught high school.)

If it had been on my curriculum, I certainly would have honored that and created an alternate assignment, after a discussion with the parent...but it would be very hard for me to censor an adolescent's reading, especially if it were something like sexual content.

I don't know. I'm glad it never came up.

Steph, I cannot read in a car, but I discovered on my recent car trup to Minneapolis that I can watch video on my iTouch without car sickness. WIN.


flea - Dec 04, 2009 12:44:08 pm PST #23069 of 30001
information libertarian

My mother took me and my sister to see the infamous Robert Mapplethorpe exhibit when I was in high school (can't remember what year, but I was maximum aged 17 and Nutty max. 14). And she kept both Our Bodies Our Selves and Anais Nin openly in the bookshelves we read from.


Gudanov - Dec 04, 2009 12:44:36 pm PST #23070 of 30001
Coding and Sleeping

I didn't have any reading restrictions, but my Aunt and Uncle were disturbed when they saw me with a D&D Player's Manual since that was witchcraft.


Strix - Dec 04, 2009 12:46:01 pm PST #23071 of 30001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

I am SO grateful for my dad's addiction to sci-fi, and my mother's addiction to romance. Censorship was never an issue.


tommyrot - Dec 04, 2009 12:47:50 pm PST #23072 of 30001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

my Aunt and Uncle were disturbed when they saw me with a D&D Player's Manual since that was witchcraft.

I'm sure my dad would have been disturbed had I brought any D&D stuff home....


Gudanov - Dec 04, 2009 12:49:50 pm PST #23073 of 30001
Coding and Sleeping

I thought the witchcraft thing was pretty crazy. I mean the only spell I ever got to work was the first level Protection From Petrification spell. Though I haven't come across a basilisk or medusa to actually confirm that.


Calli - Dec 04, 2009 12:54:50 pm PST #23074 of 30001
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

My parents never restricted my reading. But my sister freaked out when I was 12 and borrowed a horror novel of hers that featured graphic, violent sex scenes.


Hil R. - Dec 04, 2009 1:01:14 pm PST #23075 of 30001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

When I was about 13 or 14, I borrowed some books on witchcraft from the library (the one or two books that our small-town library had) and tried to do some of the stuff in them. My dad thought it was weird, but he thought a lot of stuff I did was weird, and my mom read a few chapters and said it seemed like meditation. A bunch of my friends and I went through phases of fascination with various sorts of mysticism and stuff like that, and the only time I can remember any of our parents objecting was when one mother said that her Jewish daughter could not wear an ankh because it looked too much like a cross. And then when the daughter explained that it was an Egyptian symbol, that didn't really help her argument. So, no ankhs for any of us.


§ ita § - Dec 04, 2009 1:01:19 pm PST #23076 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

tommy, I'm totally ignoring that post of yours. Too much trauma.

I just had to force an issue for gathering a requirement that everyone else was just shrugging about. It's a web app! Someone needs to define the HTML we're generating and the CSS tagging, and it shouldn't be the developers. Still couldn't pull a delivery date out of anyone, but at least the task is on the design team's radar and off ours.

I think my parents' key censorship is on what we can consume together. Which is fair. There's a Jamaican movie I almost saw with my father--but then we noticed the byline "Pumpum power" which is patois for "pussy power" so we just decided we'd see it separately.

Forever went around my English high school, but that was old hat. Some steamy Harold Robbins or the like went around the convent hostel where I lived when I was 18, but that was mostly so we could hide it from the nuns, I think. We were all old and jaded by then. The harridans went through our rooms. I'm surprised it was never confiscated, since they I got called to task for being a devil-worshipper for my SF drawings. Perhaps they didn't want to touch the tainty stuff. Or perhaps they just didn't know the author's rep. The cover was pretty innocuous--that was probably it.


tommyrot - Dec 04, 2009 1:03:10 pm PST #23077 of 30001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

When I was about 13 or so, I bought a paperback novel about the crew of a British Lancaster bomber on a night mission over Germany. I just left it around for a while, so my dad ended up reading it before I did. I was slightly paranoid that maybe he was "checking up on" what I was reading. Then when I read it there was a scene of a crew member fantasizing about the breasts of a woman he knew. Really tame stuff, but then I got all nervous whether my dad was going to say something (he didn't).

The only other stuff with sex in it that I can remember reading as a kid was stuff I read for school, like 1984. (There was tame sex in there, right?)