Hmmm.... I'm not all that cis. I think I'm pretty androgynous. I mean, when I sense someone expects me to play the "male" role it really rubs me the wrong way.

Which way would you like them to rub you?

Oh, you know what else "real man" could mean? "You can keep a job and not be a low down dirty lazy sob, like that cowturd I just left."

I think there's a pretty big difference between playing a "male" role and being a man.

I sometimes say one of the things that I like about J is that he is a true man. In my case, I mean as opposed to a boy, in that he is responsible and supportive and dependable.

ION, msbelle should check out the kitchen on this house for sale in Portland: [link]

I sometimes say one of the things that I like about J is that he is a true man.

Is "being a man" in this sense different from "being an adult"?

very cute.

just

because.