Wild monkey love or tender Sarah McLachlan love?

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Natter 52: Playing with a full deck?  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


flea - Jul 06, 2007 7:29:17 am PDT #6651 of 10001
information libertarian

One thing that makes me laugh and laugh about today's college students is how much time they spend on the cell phone with their mothers. Like, on the campus bus, half the kids are talking to mom. I went to college to get AWAY from my mother!

But wrt entitlement, professors see a LOT more grade-grubbing now than they used to. Students seem to think grades are negotiable. Also, they steal the public staplers from the library. This may be original sin and not generational, though.


Jesse - Jul 06, 2007 7:30:20 am PDT #6652 of 10001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

It's the goddamned tweens with their Bratz dolls and thong underwear, is what. ::shakes cane::

Anyway. I have another half-hour I have to be at work, so of course I don't want to work anymore, but I think I'm stuck here waiting on a couple of things from an out-based coworker, so I can print them out and hand them to the Big Boss to sign. Eh. I hope she's quick.


megan walker - Jul 06, 2007 7:30:28 am PDT #6653 of 10001
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist

Well, in general there is a lot more of:
--asking for extensions
--asking to be excused from class for various personal activities
--asking for changes to assignments/exams to be more in line with what the student feels like doing
--asking for a better grade just because the student really "needs" a better grade for scholarship, sports, parents, or whatever.

I had a student recently who never did reading, never spoke in class, failed the mid-term, got poor grades on his written assignments, and then emailed me the last week of class to say he was worried about his grade and what could I do about it.


ChiKat - Jul 06, 2007 7:32:12 am PDT #6654 of 10001
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?

Member of Generation ? since 1966.

Frank, born in 1966 puts you in Gen X.


tommyrot - Jul 06, 2007 7:33:45 am PDT #6655 of 10001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

I had a student recently who never did reading, never spoke in class, failed the mid-term, got poor grades on his written assignments, and then emailed me the last week of class to say he was worried about his grade and what could I do about it.

You could tell him, "What can I do about it? I'll send you an email that says, 'Do the work. Study for the midterm.' Then you can forward the email via an email time machine to yourself at the beginning of the semester."


Cashmere - Jul 06, 2007 7:33:47 am PDT #6656 of 10001
Now tagless for your comfort.

My MiL turned into a helicopter parent between DH, his sister and his baby brother. SiL is 25 and BiL is 18. She did thing for them that she NEVER would have done with DH--including arguing with teachers over grades, pushing for extra credit and creating that feeling of entitlement with the younger kids.

DH just shakes his head. He can't believe some of the things she's done for them. It shows in their achievement levels.


Toddson - Jul 06, 2007 7:34:05 am PDT #6657 of 10001
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

I think most of the teachers on the board have posted about this kind of thing and, from what I hear, a lot of it comes from the parents. I think at least some of it comes from the stakes, either real or perceived, being high - as in, get into the right college to be able to get a good job afterwards.

Of course, I saw some of the same thing in my job more than 20 years ago - kids straight out of college with a liberal arts degree expecting to be hired into an upper level professional job at a fairly high salary.


Glamcookie - Jul 06, 2007 7:34:37 am PDT #6658 of 10001
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

I wondered when Gen X started (I'm 1970).


amych - Jul 06, 2007 7:36:50 am PDT #6659 of 10001
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

I wondered when Gen X started (I'm 1970).

I think it's officially 1963? Anyway, right after the boomer birth numbers dropped off.

t gives secret 1970 handshake


Glamcookie - Jul 06, 2007 7:36:52 am PDT #6660 of 10001
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

Cash, that is totally me and my brother. My parents had me really young (mom was 18, dad 19) and they had nothing. I appreciated everything I got as a child because I didn't get tons all the time. By the time my bro was in his teens (born in 77), they were doing very well. He was completely spoiled. I resented the hell out of it until I was old enough to see that I was the lucky one because I'm completely independent. At 29, he is still leaning on the parents (now with added wife and 2 kids). Ayayay.

t returns cool-ass 1970 handshake